"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Urgent Help!!! Hard to get got me thinking I Quit!!!

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Okay its this girl who I think is fine and I want to start a relationship with her. It no doubt she feel the same about me. She is a 9 or 10 I mean she is exclusive!!! I get to know her she is a nice girl but she barely says anything!!! I seen her at the school and she was talking to a guy who seems to stand in my way with going with her. I walk to the group and start a conversation asking her what she do this summer. "Nothing," she tells me. I crack a joke she laugh. Then dude get in the talk and ask her some questions. She loosin's up say words to him but when I ask questions I get "nothing" "ya" "no" How could i finish this deal and go with her.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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she sounds boring to me... you might just need to find someone else.

or else just get some alone time. if she is into you there is a chance that she is just shy around you. open up to her and see if she does the same. if she doesnt, time to move on.
 
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she doesn't want to start a relationship with you as you would like/say, but you would have to make her want to. She is more interested in the other guy. Like Arizona said, she sounds kinda boring, or turned off, maybe she compensates for personality with looks..

Don't get so attached, especially to something that you dont actually have
 
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Aw well I know she is interested and she just might be a boring person which is messed up. to pretty to be one lol. so how do i stop the short answer madness!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hang out with her and show her you are a fun guy. just go bowling or putt putt or something fun like that...
 
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I agree with Arizona......Dearl ur already making a mistake..u just want a relationship just because shes " Hott" stop chasing and start choosing...Find a girl that fits ur qualities and standards.. Stop trying to impress her.. Find out if she makes you feel good inside..etc.. for what i can tell already, she sounds boring, and seams aloof...And since im a junior in hs, theres $hit load of hot girls, but i dont care.. WHat i do is "Screen" and i actually have standards, and if she doesnt fit any of them, i just move on...Good Luck out there brotha
 
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