"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Urgent First Date Help... Master DJ's in here!

spax

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Hey guys,

Met this nice girl at a bar 1 week ago and got her number. When I left, I said we'd get coffee together some time and she seemed keen.

The next day she texted me wanting to chat but I blew her off because I didn't want to become an AFC tampon and said let's get that coffee we talked about instead. She said she was out of town for the week but perhaps next week.

I told her to get back to me when she is free. Well....Monday rolls around and she tells me she is back in town and asks if I still want that coffee. I would like to, but I am thinking I should try esculate it into more of a date.

I would like to take her for that "coffee" and then perhaps go see that Fifty Shades of Grey movie that comes out on Thursday.

I figure this will get her nice aroused and lead to us fooling around a bit. A coffee date.....eh...I don't see much physical happening with just that to be honest.

So in response to her text saying "I'm back in town if you still want to get that coffee", I'm thinking of saying "Yeah, let's meet Thursday night. We'll go see a movie too."

Or does that just sound really awkward? How can I say this that doesn't sound strange.

Advice appreciated from Master DJs. Alternatively, if you feel a movie is a poor choice, is there another activity after the "coffee" we can do that leads to interaction and intimacy?

Input appreciated fellas.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheException

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spax said:
The next day she texted me wanting to chat but I blew her off because I didn't want to become an AFC tampon and said let's get that coffee we talked about instead.
Overthinking it.

It's not AFC to converse with a woman. It's AFC to be needy and talk all day long for several days and constantly bugging her. Major mistake here. This was an opportunity missed.
I would like to take her for that "coffee" and then perhaps go see that Fifty Shades of Grey movie that comes out on Thursday.

I figure this will get her nice aroused and lead to us fooling around a bit. A coffee date.....eh...I don't see much physical happening with just that to be honest.

So in response to her text saying "I'm back in town if you still want to get that coffee", I'm thinking of saying "Yeah, let's meet Thursday night. We'll go see a movie too."
Just say...."Let's meet Thursday for coffee. 50 Shades afterwards."
 

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spax said:
The next day she texted me wanting to chat but I blew her off because I didn't want to become an AFC tampon and said let's get that coffee we talked about instead.
The fear of being perceived as AFC is being AFC itself. Relax and let it go or you will over-game because of it.
 
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