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Urgent First Date Help... Master DJ's in here!

spax

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Hey guys,

Met this nice girl at a bar 1 week ago and got her number. When I left, I said we'd get coffee together some time and she seemed keen.

The next day she texted me wanting to chat but I blew her off because I didn't want to become an AFC tampon and said let's get that coffee we talked about instead. She said she was out of town for the week but perhaps next week.

I told her to get back to me when she is free. Well....Monday rolls around and she tells me she is back in town and asks if I still want that coffee. I would like to, but I am thinking I should try esculate it into more of a date.

I would like to take her for that "coffee" and then perhaps go see that Fifty Shades of Grey movie that comes out on Thursday.

I figure this will get her nice aroused and lead to us fooling around a bit. A coffee date.....eh...I don't see much physical happening with just that to be honest.

So in response to her text saying "I'm back in town if you still want to get that coffee", I'm thinking of saying "Yeah, let's meet Thursday night. We'll go see a movie too."

Or does that just sound really awkward? How can I say this that doesn't sound strange.

Advice appreciated from Master DJs. Alternatively, if you feel a movie is a poor choice, is there another activity after the "coffee" we can do that leads to interaction and intimacy?

Input appreciated fellas.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheException

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spax said:
The next day she texted me wanting to chat but I blew her off because I didn't want to become an AFC tampon and said let's get that coffee we talked about instead.
Overthinking it.

It's not AFC to converse with a woman. It's AFC to be needy and talk all day long for several days and constantly bugging her. Major mistake here. This was an opportunity missed.
I would like to take her for that "coffee" and then perhaps go see that Fifty Shades of Grey movie that comes out on Thursday.

I figure this will get her nice aroused and lead to us fooling around a bit. A coffee date.....eh...I don't see much physical happening with just that to be honest.

So in response to her text saying "I'm back in town if you still want to get that coffee", I'm thinking of saying "Yeah, let's meet Thursday night. We'll go see a movie too."
Just say...."Let's meet Thursday for coffee. 50 Shades afterwards."
 

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spax said:
The next day she texted me wanting to chat but I blew her off because I didn't want to become an AFC tampon and said let's get that coffee we talked about instead.
The fear of being perceived as AFC is being AFC itself. Relax and let it go or you will over-game because of it.
 
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