"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heres the situation guys. Im clearing some stuff up with a girl who I used to act AFC with, was on bad terms with last year. Shes moving on and she wanted to leave on good terms, same here. So me, in my overly suave and formal manner, was like 'lets go out to dinner' lol!

Now heres the main thing. We had some big issues last year and ended everything very sore. Thinking about it makes me shiver - those were the AFC days. SO tonight comes up very quickly and its in 6 hours or so.

I dont shake when im nervous, I dont run around the room - I just feel like i'll puke - not good when your talking to a girl. How do you defeat that, this is the one time I have EVER felt like that since I was like...what..when I was 10 and going to the dentist lol.

Now mix this feeling with going out and eating...oh lovely! Shes gonna be like WTF?

Sorry if this is a repost, but im just really tight on ideas here and already feeling it.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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bro...

relax and just think to yourself about the positive reaction she will have. Hopefully you have placed some of the stuff from this site into your daily life. Anyways just think how when you guys go to dinner your gonna spark attraction into her eyes that will make them glitter as she stares you down saying to her self "WOW, hes changed, and i LIKE IT"

Just tell yourself that you the two of you are going to have a Great and Joyous time together tonite....but dont make it go on forever....give her a taste and withdraw....making her want more.

Girls love having fun and laughing, just be a chill and funn loving guy. Relax and just know that you'll have a wonderful nite.

good luck bro...
 
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just think of sucessful moments in the past. i remember being a little league ball player and it was the semi finals. we were just about to win, ninth inning if we could hold them off. i was in right field, bases loaded, two outs, and a kid hits this massive pop fly. i was pretty good, and caught it, and was the totaly hero. remembering the feelings i got make me feel better as im writing this, and you should try it out.

also, you can imagine her as an ugly chick. thats an old trick.
 
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Thanks for the advice guys. Feeling better now - just some good old andrenaline going, great feeling.

Imagine her as being ugly...hah I love that one - sometimes the oldest ones work the best.
 
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