"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Urgent advice needed chaps

Asteconn

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HB8 sat two seats down from me in the computer lab.

She was having some login issues, so I gave her a hand, and she was obviously quite happy to get logged in for the first time in a week (she'd forgotten her username essentially)

Anyway; I'm seriously off my game atm (uni is more important) but I can't let this opportunity pass up.

Already secured a name and a facebook account at least. I've left her to work for a while, as she's rather busy.

Need things to say, compliment on, etc. within about 30 minutes, I'll catch her as she's leaving I think.

Cheers guys
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WC2

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You sound like that creepy guy from The Office who gathers data on women.

What's his name?

edit - dwight
 

playerone

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This post has probably expired, but you could've teased in a light-hearted way like, "That was the same look i had when i saw KFC after a week of going vegetarian". "You can't live without this thing?"

Make a comment, ****y and funny if possible, and turn it into a conversation from there.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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