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URGENT: 2 steps forward, 1 step back. How exactly do you do it??

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I remember reading about the whole "2 steps forward, 1 step back" method on the SoSuave.com tips, but I don't quite grasp the whole method...

So my GF and I kiss in the hallways, hold hands, etc etc. I enjoy it, and I know she enjoys it too. However, whenever we do hold hands n kiss, I remember the "2 steps forward, 1 step back." thing. I know for a fact that I took two steps forward at this point, but I don't know how to take a step back without her thinking I don't like her or offending her.

How do you/did you pull off the "2 steps forward, 1 step back" method without having your girl getting offended or anything?

PLEASE HELP
 

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what exactly do you mean applaya?

not just in school hallways, but on dates, classes, etc etc etc
 

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post a link to the article. i haven't read it in a long time if i even read it at all. i'm guessing that it's like when kissing her stop. then go back to kissing her and feel her up. then go back to just kissing. so keep progressing taking a step back each time.
 

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heres a good one. at the movies, without a word, place your hand over hers and squeeze gently. leave it for 5 mins, then take back and watch the rest of the movie


(optional: ask her about the movie afterwards, see how much she was actually able to focus on after that move :D)
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
heres a good one. at the movies, without a word, place your hand over hers and squeeze gently. leave it for 5 mins, then take back and watch the rest of the movie


(optional: ask her about the movie afterwards, see how much she was actually able to focus on after that move :D)
Ay that sounds crazy son, I like that. It does sound like one of those little things that gets girls' heads spinning.
 

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Are you sure your not meaning 1 step forward 2 steps back? I never heard of 2 steps forward 1 step back.

but anyway 1 step forward 2 steps back is basically like this... You are walking with a girl and put your arm around her waist then after you try to slide it down and have your hand on her ass, if you sense any discomfort you take the kino away, which can cause even more discomfort so next time she will find it more comfortable.
 

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2 steps forward 1 step back is where u do something for a few minutes, let her get comfortable with it, then withdraw and go back to what u did before (talking, movie) this will make her want that feeling again and more
 

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Dont stop kissing, its like stoping having sex with the girl u like.. Annd just give her some space.. Like not calling too often or litta but ignoring her...
 
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