Ur Single?

[FMCSMT]

That was the text that was sent to me this morning followed by:

"I ask because it’s hard for me to believe. Your hot and you seem like you’re outgoing and fun."

I get variations of this same question when they have very low rapport, usually right when they first meet me.

How do the DJs of this group suggest to respond?

 

[Mike32ct]

"It's complicated."

Then change the subject

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

Your response:

"Life happens. I AM hot and out going and fun. What's with the trust issues?"

She's just informed you unknowingly that she is saddling you with all the baggage and pre-conceived notions from all her prior failed relationships. She's just told you she is paranoid and insecure. You really want to date that?

Up to you, but if some guy said that to me I'd know he has no clue how to relate to a normal sane person. NEXT!

 

[Reykhel]

How do the DJs of this group suggest to respond?

Define single.

Word of advice: never answer a direct question from a female. Turn it back on her, mock her, be playful, but be coy....

 

[Reykhel]

NEXT!

Next is not always the answer baby.

What if we have a really good looking babe but she is slightly dumb. We still want to fvck the ****e out of her but
we don't want to scare the little chick away....

Your "standards are too high" scream "buffer".....too good for your own ****e

 

[Reykhel]

Advice from the old lady:

I'll slam it. old lady advice don't mean ****e sister

 

[BeExcellent]

Next is not always the answer baby.

What if we have a really good looking babe but she is slightly dumb. We still want to fvck the ****e out of her but
we don't want to scare the little chick away....

Your "standards are too high" scream "buffer".....too good for your own ****e

That's certainly a fair statement. So adjust depending on your individual mating strategy. If you want a pump and dump, massage the situation to your benefit by all means. Such a text as in the OP would appear to me to be a red flag for a relationship. So the OP should choose a response that is best in line with what he wishes to accomplish with this girl. Of course.

 

[Reykhel]

All of your statements appear to have the same hallmark "if the clock is not up to my standard then I shall whip the cokc off and hid
from modern life"

Look, sometimes we are no always chasing standards. Sometimes we are out there and life throws adventures......life gives to us and we gleefully accept.....

It's not always about "oh is this person a hb9 that I so truly deserve" sometimes it's about the moment....

sometimes you have to ....let go....

...let go of your standards....

....let go of your requirements.....

....let go of your sickness.....

let go.......

and just experience..............life and flesh. forget what a faggat you are.

....let go.