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Don Juan
Okay guys let's hear it.....what are your number one # closers and value demonstrating techniques.....Time to show off the arsenal. 
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
UR BEST- Value Techniques and # Closers
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
AsianPlayboy
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"You seem cool... let me see your phone."
Well my favorite ones (for phone numbers) is to set up my cell phone for inputting a new contact and hand it to them while talking. You'd be suprised how often they just give you the number and keep talking.
Also, I give all girls nicknames on my phone..slightly neg her with the name and let her talk to you about it.
Another one I like is to say "I don't call girls." She'll ask you why and just say something like "You girls are all the same..all you want is sex, sex, sex...all the time" She'll laugh. Let her convince you to call her. Then respond with "Okay..you've convinced me. I'll call you once. (hold up your finger) Once, then it will be up to you to make me want to call you again." This works really well.
Kiss close? Style's is the bomb.
Also, I give all girls nicknames on my phone..slightly neg her with the name and let her talk to you about it.
Another one I like is to say "I don't call girls." She'll ask you why and just say something like "You girls are all the same..all you want is sex, sex, sex...all the time" She'll laugh. Let her convince you to call her. Then respond with "Okay..you've convinced me. I'll call you once. (hold up your finger) Once, then it will be up to you to make me want to call you again." This works really well.
Kiss close? Style's is the bomb.
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Don Juan
i cant believe this ****....only two DJ's posted.....no Senior Dj or even MDJ........comon felloaw lets make this a tips article!!...seriously lets here it my favorite value demonstration is the ESP number game...even if u get it wrong you can still get a group laugh ....my closer is (after value demonstration)...."So I enjoyed talking to you...youre...somewhat ....interesting..i'll tell you what...since you had soo much fun talking with me i'll let you give me your number..this way we can continue our converstaion" (note* be sure to establish a time refraint before using my number close"....so there's some of my favorite techniques....now lets hear yours......don't be shy......post!!! this is to help everyones game...
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....my closer is (after value demonstration)...."So I enjoyed talking to you...youre...somewhat ....interesting..i'll tell you what...since you had soo much fun talking with me i'll let you give me your number..this way we can continue our converstaion" (note* be sure to establish a time refraint before using my number close"....so there's some of my favorite techniques....now lets hear yours......don't be shy......post!!! this is to help everyones game...Respect
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Distant Light
Master Don Juan
While most of the time I say things that pictures us doing stuff in the future and saying how I will take her somewhere with me sometime.
Then when there are logistics problems (Note I don't usually go for numbers unless I dont think i'll see them again) I'll say "Give me your number we will do...sometime" or "Give me your number" after that I usually after that i'd call her right there on her cell phone and talk to her on the phone for a min or 2. IF not I'll do one of the 2
Tell her I'll call her tomorrow *to chat*. Ask when the best time to call is, when we can just talk for a while. (Taken from online don't know who made it)
or the way mystery does it
Tell her I'll call her THAT NIGHT when she's getting ready for bed to wish her a good night.
There a few other things I'd do but I usually just use that because i really don't care for numbers and number closing I want lays or BJ closes.
Then when there are logistics problems (Note I don't usually go for numbers unless I dont think i'll see them again) I'll say "Give me your number we will do...sometime" or "Give me your number" after that I usually after that i'd call her right there on her cell phone and talk to her on the phone for a min or 2. IF not I'll do one of the 2
Tell her I'll call her tomorrow *to chat*. Ask when the best time to call is, when we can just talk for a while. (Taken from online don't know who made it)
or the way mystery does it
Tell her I'll call her THAT NIGHT when she's getting ready for bed to wish her a good night.
There a few other things I'd do but I usually just use that because i really don't care for numbers and number closing I want lays or BJ closes.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Master Don Juan
Value displaying technique...honestly I don't use any. I just say whatever pops into my head, looking to include some sexual induendo whereever possible.
I close by saying "let me get your number," then I pop out my cell, input her number, call it on the spot to check if it's a fake, then either say goodbye or continue the convo.
I close by saying "let me get your number," then I pop out my cell, input her number, call it on the spot to check if it's a fake, then either say goodbye or continue the convo.
No offence, but DJs don't need to use this stuff. Our value speaks for itself, we can make women feel at ease and women make it easy for us to seduce them.
Forget the scientific psycho-seduction stuff and just be cool and confident.
Synik
Don Juan
My personal favorite technique to get a number (without straight up asking her) is by saying something like "Hey, I gotta go, but it was nice meeting you. Call me sometime." She's then going to say, "But I don't have your number." That's when you say, "Well, if you can get it from someone, call me." She'll wonder for a second if you're kidding or if you're actually a ****. Don't wait too long before saying, "I'm just kidding. Wait, just give me yours and I'll call you if I have something fun to do."
Then...
Call her in about 3-4 days and take her someplace "fancy."
Roll up in the '92 Corolla and take her to Taco Bell
Then...
Call her in about 3-4 days and take her someplace "fancy."
Roll up in the '92 Corolla and take her to Taco Bell
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.