Uptight girl . . . need help !

[ashman1]

yo brothers, i need help wit this one .

theres this girl i see often she looks to be one of those uptight chicks , yknow dosent smile a whole lot. doesnt flirt that much, kinda stand offish
has kind of an attitude, not rude but y'know serious .
she is hot though, a HB7 - easy HB8 . i taked to her once but nothing really relavent she asked me if i seen her mom and i said no . . .

but i think shes the classic bookworm type , and ithink she older than me by a few years, but she has this amazing smile though.

i was thinking of this as an aproach :

( Just walk up to her & say y'know theres something about you that really bothers me ! you have this amazing smile but you rarely show it . . . .
or some junk like that . IDK what do you guys think ? how do i approach this one

 

[pua1989]

do it. go up and say "excuse me, but i saw you smile and i couldnt help myself but come over and introduce myself" if shes the bookworm type shell love the compliment

 

[ashman1]

cool . any other ideas ?

 

[Randallpink83]

this girl needs to get fvcked real hard! that'll loosen her up... all the serious girls that front it in public are always pent up sexually (or b!tches) so help her out.


....But my real advice to you is to approach her - no matter what you do, do it. dont back out. And then approach about 5,000 more girls - and keep on approaching - so that someday you will have so much experience that when you see a girl you want like this again you will know exactly what to do! and you will do it right then.

good luck.

 

[Igetit!]

cool . any other ideas ?

Yeah,I have a suggestion. Be whatever it is that you want from the girl. You said that this girl is uptight,which I take it to mean that she's a little quiet,probably doesn't talk much,and hard to get to know. If that's the case,then whatever it is that you would like from the girl,first,you need to exibit it yourself. In other words,if you want her to be open,then you be open. If you want her to be warm and friendly,then first,you be warm and friendly. If you want her to open up about herself,then first,you open up about yourself. Remember that women are emotional,so talk about a time when you were experiencing a emotion. For example,tell her about how nervous you were when you went to get your driver's license,then she'll feel compelled to share a similiar story with you. If you can come up with a story that is more emotional based than just telling her facts and information (e.g. name,age,job,etc.) she have an easier time relating to you.

 

[ashman1]

hey , thats pretty good ! i'll try that !

im looking for some kind of opener to really loosen her up !

 

[leftForDeadPhoenix]

You don't know if she's uptight until you game her. She may just be depressed or she may be a complete freak or both.

 

[MoveYourAss...]

There is NO SUCH THING as the opener to loosen her up.

It all depends on the situation.

YOUR PRESENCE should loosen her up. And excite a bit, of course....

Don't think so much, just do it.

Stay calm, hold eye contact, and be PATIENT. It may take some time and some convo effort from your side to start. Don't freak out, don't fidget, don't bring up excuses.

Maybe SIT beside her, say someting, then care about other stuff. Just let her relax in your presence.