"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Upping my wardrobe

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Ok I will admit I'm not one to really shop for clothes much like dressy type of stuff but I want to try my hand at it but I'm not too sure where to start and like what's in..

So i'm kinda wondering where should I start first?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tell us your age and what circles you hang out to get women.

For me, since I was 30, I switched to white shirts, black pants or jeans and polo shirts. It worked very well because I am tall and big, but no muscles.
2 years ago I added blazers/coats to that and I am getting more attention from 30+ women.

But depends on you and what you want to game.
 

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Tell us your age and what circles you hang out to get women.

For me, since I was 30, I switched to white shirts, black pants or jeans and polo shirts. It worked very well because I am tall and big, but no muscles.
2 years ago I added blazers/coats to that and I am getting more attention from 30+ women.

But depends on you and what you want to game.
I’m 33 but I can pull girls 24 I have picked up a few pair of darker jeans but no polo shirts I’m on the slim size but somewhat muscles lol had i not worked at ups doing deliveries it would be different. I was going to get a blazer year before last but I got sidetracked and forgot.
 

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Try out new things and see the results. Definately changing your look will make you feel good and will improve your confidence a little. Dressing up more than others for any occasion will send a message. Women dig slimmer guys, use this for your advantage.
 

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I’m 33 but I can pull girls 24 I have picked up a few pair of darker jeans but no polo shirts I’m on the slim size but somewhat muscles lol had i not worked at ups doing deliveries it would be different. I was going to get a blazer year before last but I got sidetracked and forgot.
Dark jeans.
Button up shirts, solids are more dressy.
And boots.
Good boots.
Like red wings. Ya they are 350$ but you will have them 10 years or more. They are timeless.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dark jeans.
Button up shirts, solids are more dressy.
And boots.
Good boots.
Like red wings. Ya they are 350$ but you will have them 10 years or more. They are timeless.
Not too sure on the boots I tend to like slip on dress shoes
 

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Not too sure on the boots I tend to like slip on dress shoes
Lace-ups are much better than slip-ons. I don't know if slip-ons even qualify as dress shoes.

But yeah, nice shoes and button-up shirts are a must. Match your belt to your shoes (black & black, brown & brown). An adult male should NEVER be seen wearing running shoes except for when he's jogging, or at the gym.

A good place to start is to have one good pair of black dress shoes, one pair of brown dress shoes and a pair of good boots. You'll wear (require) the brown dress shoes the most as they are the go-to shoes for many, many looks.

Dark jeans are good to have too. No rips or stone-wash effects.

Above all - make sure your clothes FIT. Chances are, they'll be tighter than you're used to but you'll grow accustomed to it quickly and look much better for it. 75% of the men I see wear clothes that are too big for them because they would rather be "comfortable" than look good.

I could go on but there are entire websites dedicated to this kind of thing. Check out "Real Men, Real Style" for starters.

You're on the right track, for sure. ZZ Top were bang-on when they wrote "Sharp Dressed Man". It's no cliché - it's the truth.
 

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3 button henley's are great, pull up the sleeves, look even better if you are in decent shape.
 
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