"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Upon reading THE GAME by Style, I have some envy

guywhoneedshelp

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I'm only on page 265 but I realize how these guys were a bunch of AFC's at one point in their life, and now they all made it big. Mystery now has a TV show, Style sold a lot of books, it's crazy. Who would of thought that you could make it big as a PUA and things like this would of happened? Like the Project Hollywood fantasy becoming a reality, I mean come on...

I read this book and see that these people traveled all over, stayed at so many hotels...they stayed at more hotels in a month than I've stayed in my whole life. Every day of their life was lived with such intent...

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I greatly enjoyed the book as well. The best part is... if you really want it.

You can create your OWN journey as well.

They used the law of attraction to achieve what they wanted.. and attracted into there life.. what they wanted.

It is very powerful.

It surprised me everyday.
 

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it takes more than the desire to get laid to build a life. These guys improved themselves and created their best self. All of us should aim for that. But he also mentioned that pickup is a glorified hobby, so don't take it too seriously.

But these PUAs in the Game, have deserved the life that they have, we can live an amazing lifestyle as well, we need to work hard. Very few people are willing to work hard nowadays.
 

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I've read it.

I used to love it, but as i've become more experienced and socialized, I've realized that it's quite pathetic. I read it again and couldn't help but laugh at alot of the things they did, and then while I'm laughing I'd go "hahaha AH SH*T I used to be like that..." then kind of sit there with a strange look on my face and laugh some more.

It's a great way to start, but after a while it becomes detrimental to your progress.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well, the thing that helped them achieve such great success by using the laws of attraction, is teamwork. They had strength in numbers.

I agree, I also do the "Too bad I'm gay or you would be soooo mine" and it works great. I love the "kiss good-bye" technique and I might start adding it into my false time constraints. A lot of times during reading the book, I'd feel so motivated to go out and just talk to strangers. I find myself talking to everyone, even the 7-11 guy.

I think it's an entertaining book, but the journey they went on is awesome. Most people don't do anything like that in their life. Very inspiring. Oh and about his take home strategies; most of his success may of been from girls of different race. He did mention a lot of asians. I mean, girls in different parts of the world from different walks of life respond differently than the typical American b!tch. A guy I work with, he was married to Lisa Leveridge's sister, so he did know Neil to be a writer. After all he makes a living off selling books, so he may of had to stretch the truth a little bit here and there.
 
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