"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nishbuk

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Zerocelcius, I can see why we would all want to give a good tounge lashing to a cheater. But in my book, if they've cheated on you, they are the lowest form of woman alive. Lower than the hags, the *****es, the prostitutes. When a woman is that low, you don't give her anything. Not the satisfaction of your anger, or your attention. If you are angry at her and yell at her, you are giving her your attention. She is not worth of your attention. If she cheats on, I would keep it simple, and be done:
In a calm voice:

"You have cheated on me. You are the lowest form of female. You no longer deserve to be around me. Get out of my house, you're making it dirty by your prescence. Were Done."

And yes, I'm not kidding. I would say exactly that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When you confront and shame her, you only serve to take the pressure of her. She becomes relieved more than shamed. Like "OH, he finally wised up... now I don't have to feel guilty. Now I'm free to do what I'm doing without guilt."

Cheating GF don't bother me anymore because of this attitude that I take and its very empowering, since I don't make it a big deal. I move on. Chicks know I don't tolerate this **** nor make excessive drama out of it and can move on with very little effect on my life. I'm valued more in their eyes because of this frame. It has happened to me, and on one occasion (the last), I decided to field test this frame. Since the normality of it all only made her feel sad and confused inside. I keeped it up till I found another chick which wasn't too long after that and then she got her knickers into a knot about me cheating... The reaction from her was priceless...
 

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Originally posted by nishbuk
Zerocelcius, I can see why we would all want to give a good tounge lashing to a cheater. But in my book, if they've cheated on you, they are the lowest form of woman alive. Lower than the hags, the *****es, the prostitutes. When a woman is that low, you don't give her anything. Not the satisfaction of your anger, or your attention. If you are angry at her and yell at her, you are giving her your attention. She is not worth of your attention. If she cheats on, I would keep it simple, and be done:
In a calm voice:

"You have cheated on me. You are the lowest form of female. You no longer deserve to be around me. Get out of my house, you're making it dirty by your prescence. Were Done."

And yes, I'm not kidding. I would say exactly that.
that is what I said earlier in this post.

When I was talking about tounge lashing I was saying that is somthing I did in the past, and all it did was give them reason to feel better about cheating.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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