“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Update with HB9+: Broke it off but did I do the right thing?

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(Note: This isn't me. It's from my friend. I already gave him my input but he want to hear you guy's opinions. For some reason his thread didn't show up to I'm re-posting for him.)

This is a continuation from this thread.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=205923

Basically, I panic and decided to break it off because I was unsure of her interest level. The girl is hot, sexy, smart, and sane. We have the same interest, morals, goals, background, and way of thinking. We complement each other. She's everything I would want in a girl. I know it sounds like oneitis. Even I am surprised how alike we are and I don't fall into oneitis mode easily. Now I'm wondering if what I did was the right thing?

Here's our last very last text exchange. (btw I'm green, she's gray)

http://img196.imageshack.us/img196/9933/761z.jpg

Am I an idiot for wanting to break it off? Or did I put on some good game?

But from the sound of her texts I'm wondering if what I did broke her heart That's the last thing I wanted to do.

Can I fix this?

Thanks.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Honestly, i think that was a stupid move. You broke it off because you were unsure of yourself..?

I don't know if you broke her heart, but you broke mine reading the texts.
Felt like the Grey was her and the Green was supposed to be you...
 

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In my opinion it was unnecessary, from that exchange I recon she's indeed an inteligent and level-headed person.

As for the oneitis it happends !? I guess, could still try and see how it goes. Then report here and I'm sure you'd recieve feedback on the subject matter.

Breaking her heart ? Well can't say I know the situation well enough but more probable was a slight ''wtf'' moment if everything was going along well and then you pull something like that.

Just my 2 cents, Good luck and have a nice day :)
 
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