"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Update: the girl w/ a b/f

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ok, this is my 2nd post since i'm back to the boards again....

it's the same issue- i dont know if u guys read my post the other day.

this girl has got a boyfriend, and she hasnt mentioned him at all. big flirt- def. not trying to boost her ego and such.

now for all you little kids, i know what the hell i'm doing. i'm an experienced dj, w/ plenty of ladies under my belt. i wanted to give myself a challenge this time- all the other girls are too freaking easy.

normally i can break a girl away from her b/f- cuz i've done it.

the problem here is: i cant figure this girl out. it's like she's got some cloak of some sort- i mean she's told me sh it loads about herself, but i still cant figure out what she's all about.
and i have the gift for reading people- this girl stumps the hell outt me though.

any suggestions on what i should do?
i only direct this question towards other experienced dj's, and i dont want stupid suggestions either.

thanks in advance!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Dukester
ok, this is my 2nd post since i'm back to the boards again....

it's the same issue- i dont know if u guys read my post the other day.

this girl has got a boyfriend, and she hasnt mentioned him at all. big flirt- def. not trying to boost her ego and such.

now for all you little kids, i know what the hell i'm doing. i'm an experienced dj, w/ plenty of ladies under my belt. i wanted to give myself a challenge this time- all the other girls are too freaking easy.

normally i can break a girl away from her b/f- cuz i've done it.

the problem here is: i cant figure this girl out. it's like she's got some cloak of some sort- i mean she's told me sh it loads about herself, but i still cant figure out what she's all about.
and i have the gift for reading people- this girl stumps the hell outt me though.

any suggestions on what i should do?
i only direct this question towards other experienced dj's, and i dont want stupid suggestions either.

thanks in advance!
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maybe you're just too 'hardcore' for this one
 
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Teach me your "breaking them away from the bf" ways, master.
 
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You are back to your AFC self again. lol. Keep on Pushing men. Stealing Trophy girlfriends is real fun. Although its not my life lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey, I know I am AFC and all and not worthy of replying, but one must ask...if she has not mentioned the boyfriend, how do you KNOW she has one?? Could it be a LBF or AFC hanger on??
Seems to me a master has met his match or why would else would he be back in school learning and not teaching?
 
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all you guys are funny. although you didnt really help me with my question, your "advice" if you call it that is enlightening.

it did provoke some questions, so i will get to the bottom of this. like i said, i'm natually good at reading people, and i SHOULD be able to read her- only this time, it may take some time....


but as for all of you who want some advice on how to steal the chick away from the boyfriend- feel free to pm me, or message me:
aim sn: egocrazy85, or wsuegrstudent

i'm back and here to offer advice, but as always- here to learn from you youngins'
 
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