Tracker023
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some of you guys who replied to my earlier post said I overreacted.
(If you didnt see the first post its here http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31831 )
Heres an email she wrote me today... I won't say much I'll just listen to your comments and suggestions on this:
The subject line is a title of a song, it seemed to be appropiate.
This whole thing started because I tried to compliment you.
I care for you so much, and my priority is to see you and spend time with you when you came here, and if sex was a part of that great, and if not thats ok too, because that isnt a priority of mine because all of the other stuff like spending time together is worth so much more.
but you take it as:
Why dont you stop sugar coating your **** and admit that "its ok if we dont ****" actually means "Yeah i consider you a friend at MOST, and I don't want you."
That is a complete assumption, I just wanted to let you know that i care for you and sex isnt a issue here. But if think that since i think its OK if we DON'T have sex, means I don't want you. Fine. It seems you have some internal bias to make you judge my statement that way, and it proves some things.
If somebody told me that sex didn't matter, but what did matter is spending time with me and being close with me is what mattered.... I would be flattered. I asked a few guy friends of mine the same question, and they too took it as a compliment. I'm sorry you don't see it that way.
I really did care for you, and I was really looking forward to seeing you.
I'm done with all of this drama.
THANKS GUYS, ANY HELP IS APPRECIATED....
(If you didnt see the first post its here http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31831 )
Heres an email she wrote me today... I won't say much I'll just listen to your comments and suggestions on this:
The subject line is a title of a song, it seemed to be appropiate.
This whole thing started because I tried to compliment you.
I care for you so much, and my priority is to see you and spend time with you when you came here, and if sex was a part of that great, and if not thats ok too, because that isnt a priority of mine because all of the other stuff like spending time together is worth so much more.
but you take it as:
Why dont you stop sugar coating your **** and admit that "its ok if we dont ****" actually means "Yeah i consider you a friend at MOST, and I don't want you."
That is a complete assumption, I just wanted to let you know that i care for you and sex isnt a issue here. But if think that since i think its OK if we DON'T have sex, means I don't want you. Fine. It seems you have some internal bias to make you judge my statement that way, and it proves some things.
If somebody told me that sex didn't matter, but what did matter is spending time with me and being close with me is what mattered.... I would be flattered. I asked a few guy friends of mine the same question, and they too took it as a compliment. I'm sorry you don't see it that way.
I really did care for you, and I was really looking forward to seeing you.
I'm done with all of this drama.
THANKS GUYS, ANY HELP IS APPRECIATED....