"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Update on the "Advice??" Thread from below...

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jophil28 said:
You might mean Borderline Personality Disorder .
Now there is a disorder that is REAL popular with the ladies - right up there with Histrionic Personality Disorder. Some women are a tad greedy -they have BOTH !
Scary women !!
My Bad Jophil, thanks for the clarification! I was married to one for five years and it was cause of her that I started coming to this board.

Now the good side of chicks with BPD, you need to be a total Alpha Male with them and take charge and be the best DJ you can be. They will test you and play games with you and only the DJ's with true skills are not going to be affected. It has taken me three years of being on this board to not give a shi* when she calls or whines or tries to manipulate. I put up with her cause she has my baby with her in another country. Kind of the ultimate power trip for her.

For the OP and the rest of you, you need to run when you find one of these and be on the lookout for them everywhere cause they are pretty sneaky little bastards. Your skills are only going to be used against you cause they will lure you in and then BAM, you realize too late. As it appears the OP has just figured out.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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