Some of you may remember I posted about a situation I had before, in which I was attracted to a girl I knew who had a b/f, with another problem being I have a g/f. I came here for advice, and decided to proceed with working the girl, seeing what could come of it. Last weekend we went out, and then once again this past Friday.
When I'm out with her, I make sure to use kino, engage her in interesting convo, and keep constant eye contact when I talk with her. But at the same time, when we go out, I know a lot of people, so I get a lot of social proof in when I'm approached by several different people when I'm with her. Overall good dates. I've been hesitant however to make too major a move on her, as there was too much risk of rejection either because she has a b/f, or because she knows I have a g/f...
However, tonight her friend told me this girl said today that she was starting to have feelings for me. She felt bad about it because of her b/f, but she has too much fun around me, so her friend suggested I talk to her about it (no sh*t). Now, again, I need to figure out what the best plan of action is.
Should I just break up with my current g/f, and move directly for the kill? Or rather wait it out a bit longer, see if it would be worth my while to break up with the current one? Difficult situation here, made all the more so because both ladies are in the same school as me, so I need to work quickly with this one. Hoping to get some good idea's here...
When I'm out with her, I make sure to use kino, engage her in interesting convo, and keep constant eye contact when I talk with her. But at the same time, when we go out, I know a lot of people, so I get a lot of social proof in when I'm approached by several different people when I'm with her. Overall good dates. I've been hesitant however to make too major a move on her, as there was too much risk of rejection either because she has a b/f, or because she knows I have a g/f...
However, tonight her friend told me this girl said today that she was starting to have feelings for me. She felt bad about it because of her b/f, but she has too much fun around me, so her friend suggested I talk to her about it (no sh*t). Now, again, I need to figure out what the best plan of action is.
Should I just break up with my current g/f, and move directly for the kill? Or rather wait it out a bit longer, see if it would be worth my while to break up with the current one? Difficult situation here, made all the more so because both ladies are in the same school as me, so I need to work quickly with this one. Hoping to get some good idea's here...