posted a thread recently about my situation:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/thread...se-things-havent-been-the-same-anyway.239384/
and just wanted to update you guys on it. everyone who posted that the relationship was doomed ect was 100% right. we've been barely talking for the past week after that situation and last night she ignored me all day and then hit me with the bs "I didnt see your text" excuse, so I waited a few hours to respond and said "it's cool." a minute later she responsed with "Why you mad??" and I said "I'm not?" and she started going on saying that she can tell i'm mad by my responses trying to get a reaction out of me so I just ignored it.
anyway, later that night a friend of mine was on Snapchat and wanted me to make an account since I didn't have one, since my GF(ex now) wouldn't allow me on there since she knew people used it to swap nudes. she said that she never had a snapchat, but I went to my add contacts from phone, and lo and behold I see her name pop up with the same URL she uses for almost everything. i've had snapchat like months ago and she didn't have one then, so this had to be made within the past few months..
so I confront her about it, saying "nice snapchat.". and she instantly starts sending long bitchy paragraphs about how I shouldnt be accusing her of cheating(even tho I wasn't, all I said was "nice snapchat.") and that I cheated on her multiple times and lied to her and flirted with countless girls and that she's been loyal this whole time and that she swears the account isnt hers(even tho it's her # linked to it.) and that i'm eager to break up with her so I can sleep with other girls, ect.
so I told her "well talk in person.", just so I could see her reaction and dump her in person like a man, but she sent a long paragraph saying something along the lines of "we're done talking, i've been loyal and never left you even after you cheated on me and this is my payment? blah blah blah".
so I told her, alright, it was a good 3 years, have a nice life. and wen't NC.
not long after that she started sending pics of her emails and app list on her phone saying that snapchat isn't anywhere on there and thats she innnocent ect but I just ignored it.
what do I do from here? do I just stay NC and never talk to her again? and is it still possible to turn her into a temporary F buddy until I find a replacement?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/thread...se-things-havent-been-the-same-anyway.239384/
and just wanted to update you guys on it. everyone who posted that the relationship was doomed ect was 100% right. we've been barely talking for the past week after that situation and last night she ignored me all day and then hit me with the bs "I didnt see your text" excuse, so I waited a few hours to respond and said "it's cool." a minute later she responsed with "Why you mad??" and I said "I'm not?" and she started going on saying that she can tell i'm mad by my responses trying to get a reaction out of me so I just ignored it.
anyway, later that night a friend of mine was on Snapchat and wanted me to make an account since I didn't have one, since my GF(ex now) wouldn't allow me on there since she knew people used it to swap nudes. she said that she never had a snapchat, but I went to my add contacts from phone, and lo and behold I see her name pop up with the same URL she uses for almost everything. i've had snapchat like months ago and she didn't have one then, so this had to be made within the past few months..
so I confront her about it, saying "nice snapchat.". and she instantly starts sending long bitchy paragraphs about how I shouldnt be accusing her of cheating(even tho I wasn't, all I said was "nice snapchat.") and that I cheated on her multiple times and lied to her and flirted with countless girls and that she's been loyal this whole time and that she swears the account isnt hers(even tho it's her # linked to it.) and that i'm eager to break up with her so I can sleep with other girls, ect.
so I told her "well talk in person.", just so I could see her reaction and dump her in person like a man, but she sent a long paragraph saying something along the lines of "we're done talking, i've been loyal and never left you even after you cheated on me and this is my payment? blah blah blah".
so I told her, alright, it was a good 3 years, have a nice life. and wen't NC.
not long after that she started sending pics of her emails and app list on her phone saying that snapchat isn't anywhere on there and thats she innnocent ect but I just ignored it.
what do I do from here? do I just stay NC and never talk to her again? and is it still possible to turn her into a temporary F buddy until I find a replacement?
