TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Yo guys
important update:
So i told you guys last week an old oneitis girl came back around, texted me out of the blue. This is the first girl I liked, friendzoned heavily. never made out or something sexual happened but she loved to keep me on the line those years. But yeah I was ready to escalate today because i'm not the guy she used to know. This is what happened.
SHE IS IN A LTR
We set up a meet up at my place, she came.
We had a good convo, fun talking about my house, design (my job), some about her life, had some smokes on the balcony.
After 30 mins I told her lets get to my room, she agreed.
Sat on the bed, and she asked me what are 3 things that you love most.
Told her, my job and carreer, religion interest me and the other one is a guess.
She guessed everything about life (NO SEXUAL SUBJECTS
, this always works normally) I told her then after 5 mins, looking in a girls eyes, attraction builds up, that excitement. When I tried to bend forward, look in her eyes she started to laugh hard about what I was saying. So first kiss attempt didnt succeed. I feel if she was planning on kissing me she would look back in my eyes and let me do my thing.
I grabbed her phone and she duck all over me to get it, she said give it back. I told her if you lay on my back like this I won't give you youre phone back at all lol. After a while she got annoyed and I gave it back.
A couple of mins later we talked about relationships and I said alright if you really wanna know kiss me on my cheek and ill tell you more. 3rd attempt, I would turn my face to her face and kiss her but she said no to my kiss my cheek question and started to act really weird with ''oh are you back at this again'' (she meant me liking her ofcourse) looking at her feet while saying so.
So yeah, I tried to escalate but I felt like she pulled away and didn't give me real chances to kiss but shes a pro in keeping guys on the line, I can tell you guys like no other, I felt for that years. But know I ofcourse know, ACTION is a girl's weakness.
At least I took action instead of being a pvssy like 7 years ago.
So what do you guys think? She is in a LTR and still sees me as a ''friend'' and doesn't want to escalate? Or were my attempts bad? Is this a rejection?
Ofcourse I wasn't secure like with a new girl because I know this girl for 11 years and was in the friendzone for 4 years years ago when I was no DJ. So she knows how I WAS.
I kino'd a bit but didn't push it too hard because it still felt weird to do so.
Im definetley gonna cut out ALL contact now but what are you guys opinion on this. It is important to me because this is ofcourse the girl that I was the big AFC with years ago and she did see another side of me.
BTW: I wanted to say to her ASD behavior: Babe I just want to kiss you once, it stays within this room. But I didn't want to come off desperate so I only acted but not with words.
important update:
So i told you guys last week an old oneitis girl came back around, texted me out of the blue. This is the first girl I liked, friendzoned heavily. never made out or something sexual happened but she loved to keep me on the line those years. But yeah I was ready to escalate today because i'm not the guy she used to know. This is what happened.
SHE IS IN A LTR
We set up a meet up at my place, she came.
We had a good convo, fun talking about my house, design (my job), some about her life, had some smokes on the balcony.
After 30 mins I told her lets get to my room, she agreed.
Sat on the bed, and she asked me what are 3 things that you love most.
Told her, my job and carreer, religion interest me and the other one is a guess.
She guessed everything about life (NO SEXUAL SUBJECTS
, this always works normally) I told her then after 5 mins, looking in a girls eyes, attraction builds up, that excitement. When I tried to bend forward, look in her eyes she started to laugh hard about what I was saying. So first kiss attempt didnt succeed. I feel if she was planning on kissing me she would look back in my eyes and let me do my thing.I grabbed her phone and she duck all over me to get it, she said give it back. I told her if you lay on my back like this I won't give you youre phone back at all lol. After a while she got annoyed and I gave it back.
A couple of mins later we talked about relationships and I said alright if you really wanna know kiss me on my cheek and ill tell you more. 3rd attempt, I would turn my face to her face and kiss her but she said no to my kiss my cheek question and started to act really weird with ''oh are you back at this again'' (she meant me liking her ofcourse) looking at her feet while saying so.
So yeah, I tried to escalate but I felt like she pulled away and didn't give me real chances to kiss but shes a pro in keeping guys on the line, I can tell you guys like no other, I felt for that years. But know I ofcourse know, ACTION is a girl's weakness.
At least I took action instead of being a pvssy like 7 years ago.
So what do you guys think? She is in a LTR and still sees me as a ''friend'' and doesn't want to escalate? Or were my attempts bad? Is this a rejection?
Ofcourse I wasn't secure like with a new girl because I know this girl for 11 years and was in the friendzone for 4 years years ago when I was no DJ. So she knows how I WAS.
I kino'd a bit but didn't push it too hard because it still felt weird to do so.
Im definetley gonna cut out ALL contact now but what are you guys opinion on this. It is important to me because this is ofcourse the girl that I was the big AFC with years ago and she did see another side of me.
BTW: I wanted to say to her ASD behavior: Babe I just want to kiss you once, it stays within this room. But I didn't want to come off desperate so I only acted but not with words.
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