"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Upcoming Young Party

Bunsen11

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Hey Djs,
One more customized problem!
I was talking to my girl and asked her what we should do for our next date (my mistake, I should've suggested it), but she mentioned how her friend is having a party on Friday. Now I would go but its a party for a girl 2 grades younger than me (gf's age). There will probably be a fair amount of people but Im not sure whether to go or not.
I have asked her to come to a couple of my age parties, but she has said she rather not.
Are parties a bad idea for a 3rd date(3 weeks in)?
We both have a busy schedule.
Should I go? Yes or no?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kegger

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YES, go. Since you will be one of the oldest there just act cool and make the others look up to you. Be the big shot, make them all want to be around you. Walk with your head high, as you walk by someone say coolly "hey, whats up so and so" and walk on. Make them want to be around you, it will also look good to ur GF.
 

Patrick124

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You're a junior yes?
see if she wants to chill that afternoon. if you drive, swing by the party and check it out. or invite your boys to come. tell em its a freshman party and its hunting season.
and then u have your boys and your girl and a party. should be fun.
if its gay...then leave. have a backup plan.
 

oakraiderz2

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If youre a junior going to a freshman party you need to hit yourself. Go to steal alcohol but dont chill, thats fuggin gay.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by GoSens
Why does it matter?

Anyway, I say go.
Are you serious?? You dont crash down, UNLESS you plan to steal their alcohol. Not to sound shall, but losers go to younger kids parties just to hang out. If it was a sophmore itd be one thing, but not freshmen.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AC/DC

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You're an upperclassmen.

Sure freshmen are nice and cool and original.

But you're approaching adulthood, you cannot be kickin it with pre-pubescent kiddies that think they know ****.
 
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