Upcoming first date and I have a LOT of question

[Pr0lab]

Hey folks,

I need your advice from you guys, I have a lot of questions !!!
I just schedule a date with a girl at my college.
so I offer her to go to get some coffee.
now I have a list of question of what should I do next:

1. Call her on Sun ? 2-3 days after to set up an exact time ?

2. Where to go ? Starbucks or find some cool local coffee shop ?

3. When should I go, evening or day time?

3.1 Evening - Bigger chance to kiss her at the evening.

3.2 Day time - more relax, we can seat outside which is nicer.

4. Should I thinking about kissing her at the first date, she is 19 I am 23, I have no problem but how would she react when I am coming on her like that?

5. I heard DDA says "two steps forward, one step back" to create attraction.
at this case, how would I do it? I have nothing to take back ?

6. Do you guys have a link for rapport and attraction technics material online, for the first date?

Sorry to make it long
I will really appreciate your input !

Thanks

 

[Captain]

1. Yes

2. Yes, maybe something a little nicer and more "cosy" than Starbucks.

3. Depends what you want to do with her. You could go for lunch, then go and do something together after. You can go back to your place to "show her something" (be specific.)

3.1/3.2. There's an equal chance of kissing or moving it back to your place at both times. It all depends on you and your mindset. Later in the day (late afternoon, for example) she is less likely to have any plans on afterward which may distract her.

4/5. Two steps forward, one back, and kino escalation. For example, touch her arm, and then stop. You touch her and show interest, then stop it. Send mixed signals.You should go for the kiss on the first date. Once you kiss her, back off for a bit, make her anticipate, then kiss her again. This is basic push-pull.

 

[Pr0lab]

3.1/3.2. There's an equal chance of kissing or moving it back to your place at both times. It all depends on you and your mindset. Later in the day (late afternoon, for example) she is less likely to have any plans on afterward which may distract her.

We live far apart, and to take her to my place it too complicated because of my schedule, besides I have nothing to show her. so it's either day time for couple of hours of night time for couple of hours ?

6. should I pick her up or have her meet me at the coffee shop of school?
7. She is a good looking, means no compliments like "your too cute?" or things like that?

 

[Captain]

besides I have nothing to show her.

You don't actually need to have anything to show her, it's just something to tell her so when you have sex, she can tell herself "oh, I was just going over to check out his CD collection, the sex just happened." Or, you could ask her to you you her CD collection

7. She is a good looking, means no compliments like "your too cute?" or things like that?

Definitely not. That's what every other guy that has tried to date her has said. Think more along the lines of "so what do you have going for you apart from your good looks?"