"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Unusuall situation...

after_f_x

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Here is the situation. I have been with this woman 2 times. Both of these times I get all the right signals that, she likes me. The problem is that both of these times she kept saying to me how unhappy she used to be with her former boyfriends. How stupid they act, blah, blah, blah…
What do you make of that? Never happened to me before so I do not know what to make of it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sonny500

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I guess such a comment could be taken in various ways. She could be saying this in order to illustrate how great you really are and contrast her former boyfriends. Or, it could be the opposite, and she is trying to tell you that you're going down that same path. Or, she could, for whatever reason be seeking attention. I suppose whats important in finding out her meaning would be her body language when she says such things, and the context in which she says it.

If she gives all the signs that she likes you though it will probably be the first or third thing I said thats happening.
 

Tomb

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When a girl talks alot about their exes, it cold also mean they haven't really gotten over them.
 

after_f_x

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If she was telling me about one guy that would be the case. But all of them? How can she not be over all of them.Besides she doesn't say the nicest things about them. She just says what they did wrong...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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milkman

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STOP! Don´t think about what she maybe thinks of you and stop wasting time looking at "signals".

Instead, do what has do be done. ;)
 

after_f_x

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Originally posted by milkman
STOP! Don´t think about what she maybe thinks of you and stop wasting time looking at "signals".

Instead, do what has do be done. ;)

What has to be done?
 

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Don't get deflected by fluff. Do you like her?

If yes... then ask her out. If not don't. Ignore whatever she says - judge the situation by what she does... not what she says.
 

milkman

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Originally posted by after_f_x
What has to be done?
Do what has to be done to achieve what you want.

What do you want? If you want to kiss her, kiss her. If you want her to come to your house and **** with you, tell her to come to your house and fvck her.

As a man you have birthright to do the moves.

There are two fears that usually can stop you.

1) Fear of rejection when you approach her/get to know her.

- You already know her.

2) Fear of sexual rejection.

Don´t let this stop you, make a move.
 
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