"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJVladdy

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This will sound weird, but explain me this:

Wouldn't life be simpler if women did not LJBF, or gave stupid excuses, or lying...

Said the following words: "I'm not attracted to you because A, B, C, so you blew it. But if you did D, E, and F, then you might have gotten me.

Why not?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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An explanation of "why not" is an excuse for little interest - which really doesn't require an excuse but it softens the blow!!

Our job as men is to qualify women and NOT to get their interest!!
 

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Lol, sounds like when you get error messages on your computer, and it provides solutions and prevention methods for the future.

Lmao, I'm gonna call girl maintenance to fix up my woman. :crackup:
 
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