"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Unusual facebook dilemma

DJ Axton

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Okay, here we go. This has been bugging me for ages.

There's a girl who used to go out with someone I know. He broke up with her like a year ago, so no problems there. Now back when they were going out we went to a Christmas party at my high school (me, my mate and a few other friends), and he brought her along. She was taking loads of photos and I was in a few of them. Even though I did not say two words of her that night (and in fact never have) she added me as a friend on facebook.

Here is the dilemma. I have never ever ever spoken to her, but I'd like to. Of course, I can't think of a way to start a conversation. I can't really cold approach, considering she probably knows who I am and that I know who she is.

Any suggestions?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Analyzeit

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Wait you said a year???? lol have you talked to her since
 

nek08

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adding you as a friend on facebook doesn't mean anything.
 
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