"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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alright at my lunch table her name is HB Ivy i dont really talk to her but the other day my friend Antonio was having a conversation with her:
Antonio: your too white
Ivy: no im not! -pause- I'm going tanning soon! u shud see me wen im tan
Me(kinda under my breath): that tan wont help ur man face!
then her reaction, she didnt say anything her jaw jus dropped down real low like she was thinkin "holy **** did he jus say that?" then antonio goes off sayin "this is the reason u dont get *****" but this happened thursday then friday and today(monday she sits rite next to me on friday but on her other side was antonio who shes good friends with but today she jus sat next to me no one around on her other side, no conversation, no nothing im thinking shes tryin to get me to talk to her, im hopin this was a glorious fvck up buy idk. thoughts? suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just a question, why the hell did you say that....?
 
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OP dun goofed, move on and hope no one ever hears about it - but..... She's still trying to talk to you so IDK? Maybe what you said had a 'neg' affect on her.
 
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yea thats what im thinking with the neg effect, i doubt i ever said 3 words to her, she jus sits at my lunch table and i never really even thought of going after her, the thing here is she used to sit on the other side of the table now for 2 days without fail she sits next to me also im pretty sure she tryin to work that ugly friend routine cuz every girl she hangs out with are either fat ugly or a combination of both i talked to some of my friends and they think she aint used to be criticized and now she thinks she needs to get me cuz in her mind im something she cant have, and guido like i said if it works out it wud be a miraculous fvck up, i didnt even think shed here it wen i said it, also one more thing i feel i didnt touch on enough her responce DID NOT look angry it was a look of complete surprise like she was thinking "i cant believe this"
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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