"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Unsure what to do about this...

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Hyper2010

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Hi guys,
Need some advice as this is messing with my head something chronic. Since me and my ex split, I had asked her if we evr had a chance for the future together. Her answer was always 'I don't know' or 'We'll see what happens' nothing concrete... I became somewhat of an AFC and texted/rang her silly...and now she has changed her number so I cannot even message/communicate with her...

Anything I can do??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Iceberg

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There used to be funny trolls on this site.
 
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SoSuaveDude

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I hope you're trolling... Youre a complete stalker, move on, she dumped your needy arse a long time ago!
 
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PapiChulo

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Have you tried hiding in the bushes next to her place?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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floydb25

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You know what's sad... Even though a lot of these threads might be fake - guys do this kind of stuff all the time. They get so obsessed with these girls, and start doing the craziest **** - even though she couldn't care less, and moved on long ago. There's nothing they can do to change their mind, but most guys make it even worse for themselves. It's like they can't LIVE without someone else. Come on, man.

At least it makes you feel a little better, knowing that you used to be the same way. Sort of like having comfort in knowing that you weren't the only dumbass.

Personally, a lot of **** I used to do for women is no where near as bad as some of the stuff you read on the internet. There's a lot of sad folks out there. Moving to other states, being their doormat for years, giving up everything... When you look at it like that, a lot of people with milder issues shouldn't be complaining at all. "She didn't call..." I suppose it seems serious to them, though.
 
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LuisGarcia10

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This is a joke surely?
Mate she has changed her number to get rid of you! If you continue to pursue her it could he bordering on harassment!
Move on and find another girl, believe it or not, girls don't respond very positively to harrasment.
 
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