Mike32ct said:
Evansblue:
I love your posts. You see the game for what it is.
I'm not disagreeing at all, just asking this out of curiousity...
Wouldn't you think social circle game would be superior to day game since women increasingly have this group/herd/crew mentality?
Unless the point is that she is only away from her "crew" during the day, so that's a better time to meet her?
That's the great paradox of the dating scene. If you do social circle game, your chances improve on a specific target, yet at the hefty price of anonymity, reputation and future prospects. You will essentially be on display in front of her girlfriends, guy friends, potentially family, etc. It's certainly doable, but keeping multiple flings going through different circles can be tricky.
Most of the work I do goes into protecting my reputation, which is why I primarily rely on day game. That also serves a duel purpose because she isn't around her group, as you mentioned. Additionally if the girl is attracted to you or wants to shag, she can give you the number and won't feel any kind of pressure from her friends, because they're not around. She won't look like a slvt, and doesn't have to tell anyone she's gonna meet up with some random guy for a shag. This is an extremely beneficial aspect of pick-up during the day, and a heavily underrated tactic.
That's why I don't like the night scene. Women care way too much what their friends think. They get all dolled up and look like they want some action, but won't pull the trigger and instead see the opportunity for free drinks and attention instead of ending the night putting their body and orifices to good use. I stopped playing that game a long time ago. It's a temping aspect of the night life, don't get me wrong. But being in the presence of a hot woman, and screwing that hot woman are two completely different things. It's illusory. There is a very fine line in pick-up between reality and fantasy, practically indiscernible at times.
It's like when you're driving to a destination. Sure, you can jump right on the freeway. But you have to deal with rush hour, accidents, lane closings, construction, etc. It can actually be a hindrance. Taking the side streets can be a much quieter, safer bet at times.
The faster road isn't always the quickest.
