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Unpopular Take: American women are actually fun and quite desirable internationally.

Jesse Pinkman

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Recently spent a couple of weeks in Budapest where they have an influx of tourists and travelers from England, Germany, and to a lesser extent France and Italy. Went to Szimpla Kert often as well as other places like Okert and such. After spending two weeks there as well as some time in Prague previously, I am noticing something.

It used to be that I thought American women were seen as low value and undesirable to men the world over. However, in spending time in European party destinations, I am realizing the opposite is true. At least compared to Western European women, American women are way more fun, on average just as if not more attractive, more pleasant to interact with, and desired more by men. I see guys light up when a girl is American compared to her being from Western Europe.

IMO, The Germans take it for having the worst women on the planet. It's like talking to a brick wall with no emotions when you talk to a German women and even when you close her, she is usually terrible in bed. Also, what's the younger German women being fatter and poorly dressed?

British women seem to drink too much and vomit all over the place. At least 4 different instances on this trip where we ran into British girls vomiting all over.

I gotta say, while I closed in Budapest and had a great time, I think us American guys are taking our lovely women for granted.

Sure, she might not be a feminine Latina or some wifey material Slavic girl but man, I feel like we have it better than MOST Western Euro guys do in terms of quality of our women.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Have you considered that not speaking their local language fluently might be a big deal?

My experiences have been the opposite of yours, and I have grown up in the US and lived in multiple big metro areas. American girls are some of the most braindead, vapid girls out of anywhere I've been.

I can't say for NYC, I think that place might be an exception, but it is simply too expensive to live there and hypergamy is on steroids.

Being multilingual in itself is a sign of higher intelligence.

Social media obsessed, have read nothing, their education is abysmal.

To be fair though, the world is becoming more and more homogenous, so you are seeing that across the board in many countries now.

Really I would say being where you can speak the language and relate to the culture the most, and of course your earning potential is the highest, is the right path to take.

Nationalism is on the rise everywhere and Americans are becoming more and more unpopular due to a certain orange man and the politics he espouses.
 

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I lived abroad for a while and travel frequently, and I share your perception.

American women, when compared to European women, are much friendlier.

Much easier to get along with.
 

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IMO, The Germans take it for having the worst women on the planet. It's like talking to a brick wall with no emotions when you talk to a German women and even when you close her, she is usually terrible in bed.
You‘ve slept with a hot young German woman? You never told us that.

Rock on!
 

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Western European women do not have a good reputation. USA women can compare reasonably well with them.

USA women don't compare as well to Eastern European, Latin American, and East Asian women in those areas.
 

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Recently spent a couple of weeks in Budapest where they have an influx of tourists and travelers from England, Germany, and to a lesser extent France and Italy. Went to Szimpla Kert often as well as other places like Okert and such. After spending two weeks there as well as some time in Prague previously, I am noticing something.

It used to be that I thought American women were seen as low value and undesirable to men the world over. However, in spending time in European party destinations, I am realizing the opposite is true. At least compared to Western European women, American women are way more fun, on average just as if not more attractive, more pleasant to interact with, and desired more by men. I see guys light up when a girl is American compared to her being from Western Europe.

IMO, The Germans take it for having the worst women on the planet. It's like talking to a brick wall with no emotions when you talk to a German women and even when you close her, she is usually terrible in bed. Also, what's the younger German women being fatter and poorly dressed?

British women seem to drink too much and vomit all over the place. At least 4 different instances on this trip where we ran into British girls vomiting all over.

I gotta say, while I closed in Budapest and had a great time, I think us American guys are taking our lovely women for granted.

Sure, she might not be a feminine Latina or some wifey material Slavic girl but man, I feel like we have it better than MOST Western Euro guys do in terms of quality of our women.
Please don't take it as an insult but one thing I've noticed from your posts is that you have a tendency to make gross generalization based on small and completely unrepresentative sample sizes. Anyone who has studied statistics would tell you that this is a fallacy.

Take, for example, people of Chinese extraction who live in North America. On average, they are far better off than the typical Canadian or American (because their culture prioritizes education and hard work). Where I live, if you go to any Porsche, BMW, Mercedes or Audi dealership, 70-80% of the customers there will be Chinese. From this, you might conclude that the Chinese are the wealthiest people in the world. Which, of course, is complete nonsense. While there are millions of Chinese in North America, they are only a tiny fraction of the global Chinese population of 1.5 billion.The overwhelming majority of Chinese live in China and are dirt poor.

Same with your "American women" example. You are talking about the creme de la creme of American women: young, good looking, healthy women with sufficient disposable income to party in Europe. Meanwhile, the Average American woman is 39 years old, overweight, and earns $32,500 per year. The "fun" party girls you meet in Mykonos do not represent the average American woman, just like European models working in NYC and LA do not represent the average European woman.
 

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Please don't take it as an insult but one thing I've noticed from your posts is that you have a tendency to make gross generalization based on small and completely unrepresentative sample sizes. Anyone who has studied statistics would tell you that this is a fallacy.

Take, for example, people of Chinese extraction who live in North America. On average, they are far better off than the typical Canadian or American (because their culture prioritizes education and hard work). Where I live, if you go to any Porsche, BMW, Mercedes or Audi dealership, 70-80% of the customers there will be Chinese. From this, you might conclude that the Chinese are the wealthiest people in the world. Which, of course, is complete nonsense. While there are millions of Chinese in North America, they are only a tiny fraction of the global Chinese population of 1.5 billion.The overwhelming majority of Chinese live in China and are dirt poor.

Same with your "American women" example. You are talking about the creme de la creme of American women: young, good looking, healthy women with sufficient disposable income to party in Europe. Meanwhile, the Average American woman is 39 years old, overweight, and earns $32,500 per year. The "fun" party girls you meet in Mykonos do not represent the average American woman, just like European models working in NYC and LA do not represent the average European woman.
At least American women abroad aren't working for the CCP.
 

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This doesn't mean anything. Women who travel overseas are always going to have better attitudes. Those german men don't realize their true faces. Living around American women in their home country is not as glamorous as they say it is. I've always said that international women (non western influenced) are 100% better than American women. Always.
 

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Recently spent a couple of weeks in Budapest where they have an influx of tourists and travelers from England, Germany, and to a lesser extent France and Italy. Went to Szimpla Kert often as well as other places like Okert and such. After spending two weeks there as well as some time in Prague previously, I am noticing something.

It used to be that I thought American women were seen as low value and undesirable to men the world over. However, in spending time in European party destinations, I am realizing the opposite is true. At least compared to Western European women, American women are way more fun, on average just as if not more attractive, more pleasant to interact with, and desired more by men. I see guys light up when a girl is American compared to her being from Western Europe.

IMO, The Germans take it for having the worst women on the planet. It's like talking to a brick wall with no emotions when you talk to a German women and even when you close her, she is usually terrible in bed. Also, what's the younger German women being fatter and poorly dressed?

British women seem to drink too much and vomit all over the place. At least 4 different instances on this trip where we ran into British girls vomiting all over.

I gotta say, while I closed in Budapest and had a great time, I think us American guys are taking our lovely women for granted.

Sure, she might not be a feminine Latina or some wifey material Slavic girl but man, I feel like we have it better than MOST Western Euro guys do in terms of quality of our women.
I’ve noticed a pattern in nearly all of your posts: campaigns against large swaths of humanity.
 

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In general, people who travel are going to be more educated, more affluent, more social, and more open to new experiences.

Still, you will encounter flocks of drunken hooligans like Brits in Ibiza (or Aussies in Bali)..

The corollary is that if you're looking for a woman of quality, your odds will improve if you vibe with a traveller staying in or passing through your locale.
 

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Eastern European women will talk to me, whereas American won't. Maybe this is because I am short. :mad::mad:
 

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Ahh it's Story time with Jesse again.

Will it be fiction or non fiction or gross generalizations based on sample sizes from 0 to 2.
Hahaha, the Duke. The biggest snake on this forum. Acts like your friend one second helping you with Seeking and then turns on you the next. Something about that Dallas attitude. Life will give you yours Duke. It surely will. Benedict Arnolds like you are some of the worst that humanity has to offer.
 

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I thought about what this forum was saying and I think you all kind of have a point. Maybe it is something with my upbringing and the people I was around but I do make a lot of generalizations about folks based on their nationality and at times, even carry those with me. However, now that I think of it, it kind of makes sense why I am experiencing what I am in Europe.

1. Going from America to Europe is downright expensive.

2. Going between different European countries is downright cheap, you can do it on the rails or Ryan Air for pennies on the dollar.

This means that American women going to Europe are going to be high class Beckies from rich families. Meanwhile, any trashy German or Brit can hop over to Prague or Budapest or any other city out there.

All that said, I have noticed differences in attitudes between Western European and American women. Western European women tend to be more militantly feminist and self-righteous while with American women you only get that from Boston and NYC girls. San Francisco too.

The entitlement with Western European women, namely German and Brits, is also a lot higher. With the entire British Isles, I notice a lot of self-righteousness.

All that aside, I think you all might have a good point here. I may need to ease off on generalizations a bit.
 

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All that aside, I think you all might have a good point here. I may need to ease off on generalizations a bit.
Nah, the Brits are pretty insufferable ATM. The fact that you can travel to a place like Asia and still come across a drunk degenerate British Karen who can only engage in surface-level conversations beyond soccer speaks volumes! **** the BUT THE BRITISH EMPIRE Copers, y'all have dropped down to those sewers under that city in Elden Ring lol.

I have never had any issue with the Germans though.
 
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