Unpopular Opinon: Gen-Z Men Have Low Standards, One Of the Main Culprits For Their Dating Woes!

[Dash Riprock]

https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1994325451200688265

^^This video currently

I’m not here to shame anyone. If you’re a chubby chaser, do your thing. I personally love thick (not fat) girls. But I’m going to say a few harsh truths.

20 years ago, these types of women were stereotyped as the ones who took care of hobosexuals, guys fresh out of jail, or men with no stability. I’m not saying heavier women don’t deserve good men, but back then, you would rarely see a jacked guy with a genuinely overweight woman. At most, if a fit guy was out drinking and down bad, he might hook up with one for a one-night stand, or stay with her because she was letting him live rent-free and covering his bills. Usually, if you ever saw these types in public, they would let the girl walk in front of the, and you could see the shame in their eyes (been there, done that)

Fast-forward to today: these couples are becoming common, especially in the Midwest where I live. Now you go on social media and see overweight women with what people call “delusional” standards wanting in-shape men. But are they really delusional if they’re actually dating these guys and the guys are claiming them? I know I'm going to get some hate for this, but this is a trend I'm starting to see and it's worrying, young men in great shape with sloppy women.

Solution:
Gen-Z, if you’re in shape and you want in-shape girls, raise your standards. There’s a weird duality going on: the in-shape Gen-Z crowd(women) looks like they could model, while a lot of Gen-Z women in their early 20s already look worn out like they’re in their 40s. I even know 50-year-old women in better shape.

But I digress If you like them chubby or chunky, do you King!

I don't think it's as much about low standards as it is about what they can pull.

We all know the very top tier of men (top 5-10%) garner the vast majority of the attention of women especially online which is where the majority of Gen Z's go to find women to date. So the dating pool for guys who are below an SMV 8, all compete for very mediocre women. It wreaks of desperation to me, but some guy can't stand being alone and MUST have a girlfriend. So they pick though all the dented cans and bruised fruit at the dating supermarket, so to speak. They have no other choice.

 

[Bokanovsky]

The Chads with the Plain Janes are smart. Never, I repeat NEVER, marry a woman who's a HB8+. It's an expedited direct route to Divorce-ville--guaranteed--for more reasons than I care to type. Smart guys with assets will understand.

I understand the theory behind this but I've never seen it play out in real life. I've never met a guy who could easily get hotties and yet deliberately chose to marry a Plain Jane. It just doesn't happen very often. The only exception is when the guy is a male gold digger who goes after an ugly chick because she comes from a rich family.

I also don't agree that a marriage to an HB8+ is more likely to result in a divorce. Ugly women file for divorce all the time. If you don't believe me, go to your local courthouse and sit in on a few divorce trials. I guarantee that you will not see many HB8+'s there.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I don't believe this for a second. Every single one of those so-called "Chads" would trade their Plain Jane for a gorgeous bombshell if given the chance.

I have no reason to lie about people I know to strangers on the internet. These men have families and good wives. And they weren’t socially isolated virgins before meeting their wives and had experiences with women better looking than their wives.

I also said Plain Janes, not homely women.

 

[Dash Riprock]

I understand the theory behind this but I've never seen it play out in real life. I've never met a guy who could easily get hotties and yet deliberately chose to marry a Plain Jane. It just doesn't happen very often. The only exception is when the guy is a male gold digger who goes after an ugly chick because she comes from a rich family.

I also don't agree that a marriage to an HB8+ is more likely to result in a divorce. Ugly women file for divorce all the time. If you don't believe me, go to your local courthouse and sit in on a few divorce trials. I guarantee that you will not see many HB8+'s there.

Based on personal and life experience, I disagree with your assessment, but ok.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

I would say there is nothing wrong with these guys.

I have a close friend - his wife is IMHO fat or large, also quite opinionated tbh and sometimes annoying, yet he loves her, she gave him children and satisfies him sexually when he wants it - if I would say him openly the truth about his wife level of attractiveness according to mine requirements, he would probably try to beat the s.hit out of me (and he would probably succeed while at it).

I always preferred rather slim women with petite features and rather smaller than average waist - and that's how my wife looks like.

Sure I personally feel that my woman is more attractive than his but I don't think he thinks the same - his tastes are actually more aligned with more primitive preferences of our species (fat women with big pelvis had better chances to bring strong, larger babies into this world) and his son is a handsome boy, therefore "sexual attractiveness" and "ability to bring you a strong successor" were and are not necessarily perfectly aligned - also more chubby women have more estrogen which is responsible for female desire for sex (that's why chubby chicks are often more horny while skinny females have generally much lower libido) they are also less inclined to leave you (because most guys have SMV advantage) more clingy to their men and more interested in sex = everything that satisfied average guy and kept him in line throughout the ages is checked. Slim sexy chicks were always somewhat more of trophy wives and were more difficult to keep in check due to interest of other, strong males - but it doesn't mean that alphas did not go for chubby chicks - typical alphas get off on power (or control), they like to think their word is the most important in some space, among "friends", and especially in house - again, chubby chick with more balanced emotions and more submissive character due to estrogen levels is perfect choice while moody skinny chick - not necessarily or it is more difficult to be maintained. Since alpha and beta/wannabe alphas conquer often by power/use of and gets off on it (and often sucks in game), chubby chick it is for him and he is ok with that.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

I also don't agree that a marriage to an HB8+ is more likely to result in a divorce. Ugly women file for divorce all the time. If you don't believe me, go to your local courthouse and sit in on a few divorce trials. I guarantee that you will not see many HB8+'s there.

The reason why you dont see many HB8+ in courthouse is that there are only about 2-3% (depending on your definition of HB8+) of women HB8+.

Also, there is A LOT between ugly and HB8+.

"Ugly" women file for divorce because they tried to settle for "ugly" men, while society keeps telling them they are beautiful, even in semi bald obesity and deserve a top 3% man and nothing less until they believe they are top 3% themselves.
They might even get a top 3%er to fvck them a couple of times and confirm to their inflated ego thats what they can get, while of course they only get pumped and dumped.

So..... if you happen to be a top 3%er and get with an "ugly" HB6 or 7, she will think she allready got the best that she could ever get and her hoe friends will have a hard time explaining how to get a man better than you.

Are there exceptions? Sure!
Would i bet my assets and future kids (the one and only reason for a man to get married, still wouldnt recommend marriage though) on that one woman being an exception? Hell no!

 

[Bokanovsky]

I have no reason to lie about people I know to strangers on the internet. These men have families and good wives. And they weren’t socially isolated virgins before meeting their wives and had experiences with women better looking than their wives.

I also said Plain Janes, not homely women.

Having experiences with women that are better looking than their wives is not the same thing as being in a position to marry one of those women.

The fact of the matter is that most men think with their little head. That's why women have the upper hand in society despite being the weaker sex. It would be very unusual for a man to exercise sufficient self-restraint to deliberately choose a significantly less attractive mate than he could otherwise get for strategic reasons.

 

[Prepostereax]

My first thought was that it's an online meme, created for sh & g, "these guys might very well be her roomie/ brother/ gay coworker.."

..but then, I've seen this irl too many times.
It's not a Gen-Z thing.
I can think of at least three fat chicks at work right now, and a dozen more over the years, whose partners are way above them in terms of looks & fitness.

I would say that in each case, the woman in question brings a lot more to the table than her looks, ie they're typically easy to get on with, intelligent, kind, have a sense of humour, and so on.

Yes, the girls could be hotter if they lost weight, but the only times I've ever seen that happen is after they're divorced with kids.
And even then, it's nearly always the bitchy trophy wife that turned chunky who hits the gym with a fury, not one of these happy hippos.
No, the way these girls lose weight is by piling on the pounds until they qualify for a gastric sleeve.

I suppose it just goes to show that hotness is merely an entry requirement, which works for both sexes, and these guys have a low boner threshold.

 

[Manure Spherian]

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Having experiences with women that are better looking than their wives is not the same thing as being in a position to marry one of those women.

The fact of the matter is that most men think with their little head. That's why women have the upper hand in society despite being the weaker sex. It would be very unusual for a man to exercise sufficient self-restraint to deliberately choose a significantly less attractive mate than he could otherwise get for strategic reasons.

Exactly one case was strategic. And the guy told me why. The rest were just cases of two people who hit it off.

 

[jhonny9546]

More than that, men simply put up with too much in ltr's.
They should be more independent and have the guts to walk away calmly.

And then, when they're chased again by the same woman who tormented them, they should understand that they need to look forward, not turn back, but simply strive for something better.

Guys, there are a lot of them left because, otherwise what would they have to do? Stay single? It's not for them.

It's harder but better.