A mentor. Where can I find a mentor (in real life, not just the internet) to help me out with attracting women? I feel I can't do this on my own. I need guidance. Reading a bunch of articles on the internet, and then hitting the club solo won't get me far enough.
Having a father figure like David X or Tyler Durden would have helped growing up as a confused, nice little boy, but unfortunately my dad was a timid, introverted beta, completely clueless about what attracts women. His advice was that women are attracted to a "smart, kind, well-groomed gentleman." My mom, being like all mothers, told me to be nice to girls.
I grew up as an only child, so I had no brother to help me out, and all my friends growing up were just as beta as I am. I was unpopular in high school and none of the girls gave us attention.
The closest thing I have to brothers are my two male cousins around my age. One of them has banged a bunch of chicks, but he is totally AFC and got married to his girlfriend because he accidentally banged her up, and is now raising a stepson, born to another father who ditched his wife. My other cousin has been called a "nice guy" by tons of girls and is still a virgin like me.
I look to some of my other cousins; one is a 26 year-old virgin and his dad, my uncle-in-law, was an introverted beta who got into a relationship with my aunt only because she initiated everything and did all the work.
It's seems like a lot of my friends and family growing up were not alpha at all, and to be honest, it sorta rubbed off on me throughout all these years. I can't help but feel genetics turned me into the female-fearing, hyper-sensitive person that I am today, but I'm not going to sit around and blame other people and my circumstances for my failure with the opposite sex. I want to change, but I need help.
My question, especially to the more experienced DJs out there, is how can I go about finding a mentor, somebody to show me the ropes, be heavily influenced by, and give me feedback?
Having a father figure like David X or Tyler Durden would have helped growing up as a confused, nice little boy, but unfortunately my dad was a timid, introverted beta, completely clueless about what attracts women. His advice was that women are attracted to a "smart, kind, well-groomed gentleman." My mom, being like all mothers, told me to be nice to girls.
I grew up as an only child, so I had no brother to help me out, and all my friends growing up were just as beta as I am. I was unpopular in high school and none of the girls gave us attention.
The closest thing I have to brothers are my two male cousins around my age. One of them has banged a bunch of chicks, but he is totally AFC and got married to his girlfriend because he accidentally banged her up, and is now raising a stepson, born to another father who ditched his wife. My other cousin has been called a "nice guy" by tons of girls and is still a virgin like me.
I look to some of my other cousins; one is a 26 year-old virgin and his dad, my uncle-in-law, was an introverted beta who got into a relationship with my aunt only because she initiated everything and did all the work.
It's seems like a lot of my friends and family growing up were not alpha at all, and to be honest, it sorta rubbed off on me throughout all these years. I can't help but feel genetics turned me into the female-fearing, hyper-sensitive person that I am today, but I'm not going to sit around and blame other people and my circumstances for my failure with the opposite sex. I want to change, but I need help.
My question, especially to the more experienced DJs out there, is how can I go about finding a mentor, somebody to show me the ropes, be heavily influenced by, and give me feedback?