"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Unnecessary apologies from girls

PantyWhisperer

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A woman who apologizes a lot has always been a very good sign in my life experience. It shows a certain humility (a word we don't use enough around here) and even grace.

In fact, it's something I look for in a new woman. Of course if it's too extreme, that can be a problem, but good old-fashioned politeness is a valuable thing in a woman.
Agree 100% it is a great sign. There are few women who really do apologize when they need to and really mean it when they do. Good stuff.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Roober

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You ignored it, because when the apology was issued it "felt good" and it's what you wanted to hear. She was telling you what you need to hear from her end. She may have been sorry, but whatever else she was doing was obviously more important.
Agreed! And it was what I wanted to hear. Man, that is a reality pill to swallow.... ugh.... I remember telling her "you don't need to apologize, it's ok". While I think it was a legit apology, don't keep doing it...

Dunno, I would like to hear on other's thoughts on this?

She apologizes for something the first time... response?
Does something similar again and apologizes... response?
Third time?
 
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