"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A wise answer form a wise man...

you guys are right: ill get to the bottom of this in the next 24 hours but is it right to ask her now whats going on or should i wait and see...?? could it be a phase?

but don't worry about the oneitis...i already have 3 dates set up in the next 2 weeks with 3 different girls....i just like this one particularly more cus she's....well she WAS fun!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You want 'concrete' results here! And I'm not talking about cement!:D

You want to ask her direct questions that will determine her psyche and what she wants with you. All the responses to your questions must be in the affirmative regarding her interest in you. Don't ask her if she likes you - that is not what I am talking about.

The quest of your quest-ionig should be to know whether she is worth pursuing and the effort involved to accomplish your goal at hand. You then decide if she is worthy.

Don't ask me what questions you should ask her...only you know your objective and the patience that is required to 'win' her.

I know the questions to ask but I have them locked up in a vault and do not have access to them right now:). Quit being in limbo with this chick and get definite and strong responses from her...no 'maybes' or 'I don't knows'!!!!
 
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Relax Man...

You are asking way too many question bro. Relax, don't make this situation harder than it is already...
 
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Re: Relax Man...

Originally posted by Da-OnlyX
You are asking way too many question bro. Relax, don't make this situation harder than it is already...
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so what are you implying i should do?

and what sux so much now puertorican_lover is that i have so much work that she's stuck in the back of my mind while im doing all sorts of projects and assignments for school but cannot do anything with her cus we don't go to the same school and i have no time to call her before at least 2 days...
 
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But is it right to ask her questions now or should i wait for the dust to settle down first?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This reply has no meaning...im just trying to put my thread on top of the list to get more point of views...
 
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