"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I liked High school. It was so much easier to make friends in high school because I spent so much time there.

Now in Uni I only have 12 hrs of class/lectures a week, and I don't really see these people very regularly..... it's hard really to establish a new group.

I hang out mostly with a bunch of different friends/acquantances from high school (I knew a lot of people from different groups in high school, I do get on fine with all of them but most of my main group in highschool has gone to other universities).

I know I can't keep hanging on to high school and I should move on......

This isnt the most concise or coherent post but.... people... can anyone relate?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I can.

Mine is a little different because I skipped a year, so its not like im starting with a bunch of people in the same boat, which would otherwise be fine.

But meh... just the way the cookie crumbles, it'll get there.

Be vocal in class... be the nerd (projected in a non-nerdy way;)) ... it'll be a start to establishing yourself as someone for others to look up to/learn from etc - they're all in the same boat, and groups are usually formed by those that open their mouths and generate rapport early.
 
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You seem to have a lot more extra time on your hands then what you had before. There are usually clubs that have a specific theme to them. Find one that was both males and females that fits one of your interest and join it.

You might want to get involved in politics. Politics is power and women love power.Women also like men who know what they want. You might want to figure out what you want in the way of a career, if you haven't already got it planned.
 

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Yea I can relate to that but I go to tafe and 2 of my mates are in the same class as me so it's not so bad. Also tafe is like highschool but with heaps more freedom and more laid back. Since the classes have around 20+ students you can mix and mingle more easier than, say a uni with over 200 students all facing in one direction.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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get involved......stay positive.............(easier said than done.....during exam time I am under so much stress) I go to UNI in Ontario..............thinking of having a seperate forum for University don juans on here......if its ok with Allen.......but I think it'll be a great idea




but wokring out at the gym is awesome.....u get in shape....meet tons hot girls.....make lotta cool buddies....


Choose what sport ur best at......and try out for the team......women love athletic guys.....especially if ur on the varsity team
 
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