"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I liked High school. It was so much easier to make friends in high school because I spent so much time there.

Now in Uni I only have 12 hrs of class/lectures a week, and I don't really see these people very regularly..... it's hard really to establish a new group.

I hang out mostly with a bunch of different friends/acquantances from high school (I knew a lot of people from different groups in high school, I do get on fine with all of them but most of my main group in highschool has gone to other universities).

I know I can't keep hanging on to high school and I should move on......

This isnt the most concise or coherent post but.... people... can anyone relate?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I can.

Mine is a little different because I skipped a year, so its not like im starting with a bunch of people in the same boat, which would otherwise be fine.

But meh... just the way the cookie crumbles, it'll get there.

Be vocal in class... be the nerd (projected in a non-nerdy way;)) ... it'll be a start to establishing yourself as someone for others to look up to/learn from etc - they're all in the same boat, and groups are usually formed by those that open their mouths and generate rapport early.
 
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You seem to have a lot more extra time on your hands then what you had before. There are usually clubs that have a specific theme to them. Find one that was both males and females that fits one of your interest and join it.

You might want to get involved in politics. Politics is power and women love power.Women also like men who know what they want. You might want to figure out what you want in the way of a career, if you haven't already got it planned.
 

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Yea I can relate to that but I go to tafe and 2 of my mates are in the same class as me so it's not so bad. Also tafe is like highschool but with heaps more freedom and more laid back. Since the classes have around 20+ students you can mix and mingle more easier than, say a uni with over 200 students all facing in one direction.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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get involved......stay positive.............(easier said than done.....during exam time I am under so much stress) I go to UNI in Ontario..............thinking of having a seperate forum for University don juans on here......if its ok with Allen.......but I think it'll be a great idea




but wokring out at the gym is awesome.....u get in shape....meet tons hot girls.....make lotta cool buddies....


Choose what sport ur best at......and try out for the team......women love athletic guys.....especially if ur on the varsity team
 
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