"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i like history, but have second thoughts about studying it in university next year--i heard its hard to get a job with it, but i like it, so the situation becomes problematic.

fellow dj advice appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah... I like History too, but since it's hard to find a job, I don't really know.
 

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Where do you think History majors get paid from?

What is their source of income?

They can't get a job on their own, is it an established industry where entrepreneurs have no place whatsoever?

Why not change that? You are a DJ, can you think of nothing productive that history has to offer to todays failing society?
 

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flippinfreak said:
Where do you think History majors get paid from?

What is their source of income?

They can't get a job on their own, is it an established industry where entrepreneurs have no place whatsoever?

Why not change that? You are a DJ, can you think of nothing productive that history has to offer to todays failing society?
Easier to speak than to do.

It would be cool if he managed to do that, though. When I finish the 12th year in HS, I would like to go to college study about China/Japan. Yeah: http://www.clco.ilch.uminho.pt/Default.aspx?lang=en-US

That course. For me, it would rock a lot. But it's kinda hard though... Everyone is against me going to that course, and I think it's kinda hard to make money with the knowledge I would adquire after I finish my degree.

Don't want to steal your thread. :p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Easier to speak?

I was asking a question damnit!
 

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:box: Stilll haven't answered my queeeeeestioooon
 
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flippinfreak said:
Where do you think History majors get paid from?

What is their source of income?

They can't get a job on their own, is it an established industry where entrepreneurs have no place whatsoever?

Why not change that? You are a DJ, can you think of nothing productive that history has to offer to todays failing society?
can you expand on that FF? interesting thought, but what kind of pathways are you looking at?
 

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I'm a history kind of person, it couldn't be too hard.

Take good notes and pay attention.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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theory of knowledge said:
can you expand on that FF? interesting thought, but what kind of pathways are you looking at?
Dude(I love that word), I aimed the QUESTION at you. Do you expect me to do your homework for you?

How has History survived? How has it developed? How have new discoveries been made. Man, everybody looks back on history, but next to nobody sees a damned thing.

I don't think your ever going to go out and hold a rubber ball moulded by Mayans. I'm never going to set foot on the ground of a crumbled civilization. Buddy living next door to me probably doesn't give a sh!t right now whether or not the Romans won any wars however many thousands of years ago.

Today, we've got ethnographers, dudes who go out and spend months in the field studying anthropolgy. Field testing theories of old culture, and societal boundaries of societies none of us will EVER probably hear about.

There are hisotry teachers in High school, whoteach kids about their own country, and of other countries. They teach kids what mistakes they made, and told them not to make them again. They're doing a shatty ass job of it if you ask me.

A thousand years ago, some dude invented something and wrote it down in a book. Today, 50 people are fighting over who gets to keep the invention.

Last month, a company crumbled, and now they need somebody with the skills to investigate how far back the corruption goes.

Man, without even THINKING of entrepereneurial possibilities(movies, books, antiques, field work, privelages, settlement claims) I just rang off four(to me) of the most important fields that a history major can look back on.

Now, you are a DJ... what do you see in the field of history, that you can grasp FULLY, and do a b!tchin ass job doing? You can always write thesis, and do extra work on the side. You can write proposals, and ask for funding from governments around the world. If you approach a businessman, who will let you sling R&D strategies at em, you can open up trade between museums NO sweat.

It's all up to you though, if you think the economy is going to collapse, look at history as your own personal goal.
 

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i worked in my mums doctor office for a few years and we always had drug reps coming in. finally i bothered to ask one what kinda college major she had, and she said history. i asked her how that got her a job as a pharm representative, and she said it really doesnt matter to alot of employers, as long as you have college degrees. its all about the expanded knowledge that they want she said.

meh sounds sensical to me i guess.
 
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