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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Universal Signs of Wanting Sex?

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I heard from a friend of a friend of mine that in a club there are two things you can do to let the girl subtly know that you are intrested in sex for ONS without coming on too strong.

One method is while talking to a chick you make your two hands like a gun shape and place them in your pocket so the index finger and the thumb are out and both index finger are pointing towards your croutch. This way while she is talking to you, she will be constatly looking towards your crouch to see to what you are pointing and this will make her think more about sex.

Another method is to take a chicks hand and with your index finger you make a small circular motion in the middle of her palm and this will subconsicously create a relationship with the idea of sex.

I don't advocate those methods, they sound a bit comical to me, I am just curious to know if anyone heard of those methods and whether or not anybody uses any psychology to indicate you are looking for sex tonight without actually saying it.
 

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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I heard the the first idea, with the pointing, before on TV. Interestingly, if you put your hands fully into your pockets, according to pop psycology, that subliminally communcates that you are hiding something. Obviously that's not good, because you are saying you have something to hide.

But with the small modification of having just your thumbs, or your index fingers and thumbs, over outside of the pocket, you're drawing attention to that area, like you said.

Whether there's any truth to this, I don't know, but I would much rather, and have, take steps to increase confidence and sexual lust and have these physical signs working on a purely subconcious level, than go up to a girl worrying about whether my index finger is pointing towards my dyck.
 

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Originally posted by DJDamage


Another method is to take a chicks hand and with your index finger you make a small circular motion in the middle of her palm and this will subconsicously create a relationship with the idea of sex.
HAHA thats funny. i dont care if it works or not thats ****ing funny
 

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i'm trying to fit 2 hands into one of my pockets right now, it's not working......
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What I was getting at, is that guys and girls should have a universal sign that they want sex on the spot as soon as they meet without all the talk and the games.

Like if you spot a HB and all you want is just sex and instead of going over there and try to get in the groove, get your game on and throughout the night figuring out if you are going to score and if the chick wants the same, why not cut through all the mess by using a sign especially if the girl is intrested as well in sex only doesn't want the games but yet she wants to be "discrete" about it.

I had another friend telling me that if a chick softely blows smoke in your face it means that she wants to give you a BJ. Again I have to question this kind of logic but there seem to be an "underground" language of wanting sex without actually saying it or running mad games on a chick.

Is there such a thing? or its all body language and kino that mix in with this kind of idea?
 

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Originally posted by DJDamage


Is there such a thing? or its all body language and kino that mix in with this kind of idea?
saying "would you like to go have some coffee " = " lets go have sexO "
 

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Originally posted by DJDamage
What I was getting at, is that guys and girls should have a universal sign that they want sex on the spot as soon as they meet without all the talk and the games.

Like if you spot a HB and all you want is just sex and instead of going over there and try to get in the groove, get your game on and throughout the night figuring out if you are going to score and if the chick wants the same, why not cut through all the mess by using a sign especially if the girl is intrested as well in sex only doesn't want the games but yet she wants to be "discrete" about it.

I had another friend telling me that if a chick softely blows smoke in your face it means that she wants to give you a BJ. Again I have to question this kind of logic but there seem to be an "underground" language of wanting sex without actually saying it or running mad games on a chick.

Is there such a thing? or its all body language and kino that mix in with this kind of idea?
Haha, although it isn't body language, but talking, this whole "get to the point" attitude reminds me of this movie with Uma Thurman in it (don't know the name):

She and a guy are sitting on a couch together and both drinking a beer. They aren't saying much and you can tell it's kind of awkward and she randomly blurts out " You know, I give an incredible blow job." And the guy almost spits his beer out he's so surprised that she just brought it up. And of course they proceed to hooking up.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Re: Universal Signs of Wanting Sex

Clinical studies show that crotch odor is the clearest indication of sexual arousal.

Dont sleep on the awesome power of your schnozz!
 
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