"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Universal laws of Attraction vs Gimmicks.

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When it comes to attracting women, we do things that we think that will either attract a girl or have her become more attracted. Sometimes they work and sometimes they don't. But there are things that you can do as a Male that are UNIVERSAL in regards to attraction. These traits are what make you stand out from the rest of the males who don't value themselves enough. Gimmicks are "tricks" that may or may not work...

Universal Traits of Attraction:

1. Hygiene.

- Nobody likes a smelly and or greasy person.

2. Grooming.

- Having an uneven beard, overgrown mustache, or bed hair isn't necessarily attractive.

3. Style.

- Developing a nice sense of style goes a long way to not only women but everyone in the room. Wearing dress shoes, dress pants, and maybe a nice shirt shows a lot of class. Especially tagged with a watch, cologne, and a necklace.

4. Eye Contact.

- Pretty self explanatory. You darting at the ground or around the room when someone is talking to you shows lack of confidence. Don't stare either, every now and then look away and then back.

5. Facial expressions.

- Mastering your smile, eyes, and cheeks bring a lot more character to your interactions. Plus it shows charisma.

6. Kino

- Physical contact is the barrier from being a stranger to a potential lover. Touch is a very powerful thing. Unless you force kino in unnatural situations, you cannot go wrong with kino.

7. Voice clarity.

- You don't have to talk like you have a megaphone but talking in a clear and assertive manner will give off the impression that you speak highly of yourself and that you should be respected.

8. Posture/body language.

- Slouching, small steps, hands locked by your side, and looking down at the ground are all traits of a weakling. Walk with your head held high, chest out, back straight, arms swinging, shoulders relaxed, and have your knee bend before you take a step are all traits of a dominant/confident man.

9. Banter.

- Don't take everything so seriously and don't take everything jokingly. Balance! When a woman says something, don't be afraid to poke fun at it. There's a fine line between being a flirt/challenging and being an *sshole.

10. Working out/Health.

- Staying in shape will not only help you but it will help attract women. A woman isn't going to say/act like that she doesn't like a man that is toned/in shape. None.

11. Direction in life.

- Every woman likes a man with a plan. Especially one that includes his life, remember women are the submissive ones!

12. Dominance.

- I'm not saying control every aspect of her or anyone else's life, but I am saying to lay down the law when someone crosses the line and to not be afraid to say NO.

All of these traits are UNIVERSAL in terms of male attractiveness. You can get women with these traits ALONE. Anything not on this list I would consider a GIMMICK. Gimmicks work on some women but not ALL of them. These traits are universal and you cannot go wrong with any of these traits.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I agree with all of this but I'm growing out my facial hair.
 

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SeymourCake said:
I agree with all of this but I'm growing out my facial hair.
Well as long as you maintain it then you're fine. Not maintaining it is what you don't want.
 

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The hair part is not true everyone has a different opinion about that. To general most women are different some like beards, some don't some like the scruffy look and some even like the 5 o clock shadow look on a bald man, go figure
 

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Great list. If anything, taking care of the little things about yourself shows you have self awareness and attention to detail (you're not a slob). It's one thing if you're looking unkempt because you just got back from an arctic excursion, vs. "letting yourself go" because sitting on your couch and watching T.V. has become your main priority.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I want to not respect this post and enjoy it as much as I did. But this kid is right on the money. Concise and impact-full. Put it on your fridge. Rep.
 
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