Derek Flint
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Again, why do I need to learn it?
I have no use for it in business or personal life.
I have no use for it in business or personal life.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Universal height
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
So 175cm is considered as short, then how is that Don Juan was about 175cm tall? I heard that you are only considered as short if the girl is taller than you, if you are taller than all the girls you are with then its perfectly cool.
i don't know what it's like where you live, don joffe, but in italy most teenagers are more than 175 cm, so that's quite a short height... maybe not short, but surely a bit less than average.
u cannot relate to don juan, since he lived over 300 years ago, man... at that time 180 was really tall (like 190 today), so, obviously, 175 was above average height
u cannot relate to don juan, since he lived over 300 years ago, man... at that time 180 was really tall (like 190 today), so, obviously, 175 was above average height
jakethasnake
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Then that's probably your fault for being such a provincial fool, isn't it?
Nothing like a dose of cosmopolitan flair to make a man cultured and interesting.shrewd
Don Juan
Do they factor in midgits when considering the average height? My friend tells me they do
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.