"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Latinoman said:
I would only try and reprogram a woman that is in her early to mid 20s.

If she is in her 30s and 40s...that would be a waste of time and the best we can do is show them our boundaries and deal breakers. And of course, apply the DJ stuff.
Totally agree. Women become feminist firstly because of the education they have. For women that reach their 30s and single, their past/experiences must be add to this. It becomes deeply hardcoded.

My ex-gf was 26 and I was able to remold her in only one year, but I admit that it was a tough job: lots of walking away & sometimes even spinning plates (which I don't like when I make the commitement of being in an exclusive LTR) to show her who's the boss.

I used to be one of those that preferred older women. Not any more, molding a younger women makes your life much simpler.

-peace.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Picking up women on their double-standards should be fun. Most of the time the motivation is less about equality and fairness and more about sticking up for their 'team.'
Can be fun if it is a woman we are just having sex with. But it is very disapointing if it is a girlfriend that is part of a LTR.

Note: we know there are differences between men and women, and stating those differences is not the equivalent of dealing with "double standards". This is the key word women use when we state the clear differences between men and women: "That's double standards!". Nope, it is not double standard, it is in fact the way it has been of CENTURIES!

So, this can become a very thin line and an impossibility when dealing with women.
 
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