"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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United 93 movie

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Anyone see this? I have only caught the last 45 minutes, but it definitely had my heart beating rapidly. It was well directed since they did not use any big name actors and actresses and there was no suspense music. They even had the terrorists speaking only in Arabic (which made it more realistic)

I can't stop thinking how terrifying it would be to be on a plane, knowing you are going to die in huge fireball with impact going over 500mph.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's a good movie?

I think I might catch it late, later on tonight on PPV
 

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mahon83050 said:
It leaves you full of suspense and makes you reflect on life a litte more; basically that we can die at anytime.
So does die hard.

I couldn't bring myself to watch it, without getting really angry at terrorists, that and I couldn't "cash in" on other peoples misery.
 

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WesCottII said:
I couldn't bring myself to watch it
Same here. Every time I even see the video clip of the planes crashing into the towers, it makes me teary-eyed. Especially pictures of the people jumping out of the buildings. It's just really tragic, even thinking about it, so I don't think I could watch it without crying and feeling really bad.

I can't imagine how that would feel to know you're going to die like that. The whole 9/11 was so horrific and inhumane I don't want to see it over again or in more detail. I think it's more something you try to forget and just remember that we lost a lot of American lives that day. I think everyone remembers exactly where they were and what they were doing that day. It's chilling.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GREAT FILM !!!! but one i should never have watched read above post for why
 
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