"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Never heard of it. I googled him but all I found were pictures of some juiced-up bodybuilder. Could you post a link?
 
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Iron Addict says it is a not go, so that means it is a no go.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quagmire911 said:
Iron Addict says it is a not go, so that means it is a no go.
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Iron Addict is kinda odd at times. He told me i'm likely to never correct my posture no matter what I do. (i'm not even that screwed up)

Lots of other places seem to be quite insistent that posture change through stretching and strengthening is very possible. Even stronglifts has lots of stuff about it on his blog, and my one ex corrected her shoulders' forward slump through a personal trainer. I don't know why iron addict would act like there's nothing you can do. All he said was "i don't believe in that."

It seems like every guru out there has some weird ideas like Poliquin's supplement recommendations where like every recommendation he has is "take lots and lots!"
 
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