"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm in grade 10...I'm pretty average in size but overall people like me...

There are a pair of twins in gr11 names x and y, and they are the best looking girls ever...I know I know....they need to have personality etc...but they are drop dead gorgeous...to the extent that they have very few friends that are female....guys always seem to be buzzing...

One of them has a boyfriend whos a coworker of mine (x) and the other (y) does not...Now I'm not afriad to approach...as I've done it before...just not with them...I'd like to just be really different then the guys who they have hitting on them everyday...and it's kind of awkward when you are hitting on one and her sister is right there...

any tips/ideas guys? thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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your in grade 10, shes in 11... she will think she is your superior. im not saying it will never happen but its rare that older chicks in high school will hook up with anyone in a lesser grade. you can work your way up the popularity chain to get some rep so your known and your somebody, otherwise your just some sophmore trying to hook up with a junior. usually chicks like that go for their grade or older but she must have interest in you for you to go anywhere unless anyone else here has some great advice and sees other wise. good luck peace im out
 
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No matter what, you need some more confidence if anything is gonna happen for you.

Have more respect for yourself. "I'm kinda average but people like me..." That doesn't exactly brood confidence. These juniors already won't think much of you just because the fact that you're a sophmore. Screwed up, i know, but true. Now if you go up there all like "hey um.... you're hott.... wanna go out?", then good luck even getting a response.

I suggest you read some of the more inspirational threads in the bible, like those by Pook. Build up some self-esteem, be the man, and go get your girl!
 
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well....i do have quite a bit of confidence...I dont think thats really the issue...I am friends with a girl in my grade that knows them from soccer or something so that could be an in...and it probably wouldnt have to come up right away that I'm in grade 10...I'm 16 and should be in grade 11 so dont really think thats a big deal...
 
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This is where you Use NEG-Hits
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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