"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Unique situation im in need advice!

mtlwlu

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Ill cut striaght to the point, I went to my schools football game and happened to win the 50/50 $643.

So naturally I organize a bottle service/ VIP for this coming weekend at the club, you know be ballin for at least a night.

Anyways my questions are

1) should i invite my girlfriends or take advantage of the "VIP lure"
2) classes start this week for me, so I was thinking of just sitting beside the hottest girls in class and mentioning to them "I got vip this weekend if u want to come out" good idea/ bad idea?

Anyother advice would be appreciated, needless to say its a perfect oppurtunity to use my DJ skils.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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doubledown11

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If you've got girlfriends, invite them. The more girls, the merrier.

If you're sitting next to a girl who you think is cute, ask them a question, like "Hey, What are you doing this weekend?"
Girl: blah blah blah
"Cool, well I've got VIP at the club Saturday night, here give me your number"

just my 2 cents.
 

COD

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naw Use the VIP lure..........someone new is always exciting
 
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