"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Unique situation im in need advice!

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mtlwlu

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Ill cut striaght to the point, I went to my schools football game and happened to win the 50/50 $643.

So naturally I organize a bottle service/ VIP for this coming weekend at the club, you know be ballin for at least a night.

Anyways my questions are

1) should i invite my girlfriends or take advantage of the "VIP lure"
2) classes start this week for me, so I was thinking of just sitting beside the hottest girls in class and mentioning to them "I got vip this weekend if u want to come out" good idea/ bad idea?

Anyother advice would be appreciated, needless to say its a perfect oppurtunity to use my DJ skils.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you've got girlfriends, invite them. The more girls, the merrier.

If you're sitting next to a girl who you think is cute, ask them a question, like "Hey, What are you doing this weekend?"
Girl: blah blah blah
"Cool, well I've got VIP at the club Saturday night, here give me your number"

just my 2 cents.
 
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naw Use the VIP lure..........someone new is always exciting
 
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