Unique problem.....help appreciated.

[TomDuke]

In my area (rather not say) i am a known professional boxer with an undefeated record. I have cleaned out the competition in my area and knocked out a lot of people along the way. I am known for being very mean (in the ring) and having a granite chin.

I dont tell you this to brag or put on an image, i tell you this because of the problems i face due to this reputation. In all truth, i dont act one bit tough or hostile to anyone im not fighting. Im the friendliest, most approachable person youll ever meet and if you met me as a stranger, youd probably never know of my fightining history. With this said, my reputation has made me somewhat of a legend with males, but with worthwhile women...i am avoided. Sure, i can pick up the sluts that go after the powerful, but i dont want that. I want a refined, sweet, caring woman, and no matter how much of a gentleman i am, i am avoided by them because they think i am an animal. I dont want people to think im dangerous because to be honest, i am a real gentle guy and would never hurt anyone that didnt challenge me. Why do women avoid me so badly? and can i change this? help is so much appreciated.

 

[Tenzen]

probably because u act all gentle around women. They see that ur a boxer and when it comes to talking with them ur a wimp..... If something doesn't work i try to do the opposite. See what happens when u do act like a boxer around women don't cover it up. Lmk laterz

 

[MMA Juan]

I for one definetly understand where you are coming from. I am also a fighter, and because i fight in a cage, obviously it can come across to some as somewhat barbaric.

However, with me it works otherwise...

I don't think its the boxer rep that is holdin you back. When i game a girl, i use proper techniques and do quite well, and during a conversation when they find out i'm a fighter they normally get shocked. But they seem to like it. It makes them, think well this guy is descent, knows his game with women and can handle himself.

I think you need to up your knowledge on socialising with women, learn the right techniques, and you definetly found the right place bro, this place has the tips, and knowledge to definetly make you compitent in that area.

I think girls like a guy who can handle themself- for thousands of years women have always wanted a man who is the protector, and with a boxer rep you have that there.

Learn your game, and you're gonna do fine.

PS- Don't be a nice gentleman with women, that doesn't work...

 

[WaterTiger]

Reasons for your problems:
1-Women don't get boxing
We really don't understand why two intelligent men will strip down to their underwear and pummel the crap out of each other. You must have anger issues.
2-Rocky ruined it for you
We've all seen the movies. Rocky, despite his money and fame, was still a thumb-breaking street punk from the wrong side of Philly. He won't do well with the upper class set. No woman wants to take Rocky to the country club. "YO! Waiter! Bring me a fvcking beer!"
3- You beat people up for a living.
Women think:"A boxer...I can NEVER let him be upset!" The fact that you can shatter a man's jaw with a single punch will make one woman's panties wet, and scare another half to death. The "gentlness" you portray outside of the ring makes them wonder if it's a false front. We also saw what happened to Mike Tyson's marriage & the alligations of abuse. He ruined it for you as well.
4-Those lovely Ring Girls
You're probably aren't sleeping with them, but women have suspicious minds. Constant thoughts of your infidelities will drive them nuts and away.

I wouldn't tell them what I do for a while. Date them, get to know them and only tell if they insist.

 

[Jaxon]

I dont tell you this to brag...I have cleaned out the competition in my area...having a granite chin...my reputation has made me somewhat of a legend...

Yeah, doesn't sound like you are wanting to brag at all.

Athletes, especially successful ones, have to be completely retarded not to be able to get girls of all levels of quality. If you're as successful and well known as you claim to be and still can't figure out how to pull decent chicks, there is no hope for you so giving you advice is pointless.

And if you're not what you claim to be or are greatly exaggerating (a likely possibility) then responding to you is again, pointless.

Either way this thread is a waste of time.

 

[Red07]

Yeah, doesn't sound like you are wanting to brag at all.

Athletes, especially successful ones, have to be completely retarded not to be able to get girls of all levels of quality. If you're as successful and well known as you claim to be and still can't figure out how to pull decent chicks, there is no hope for you so giving you advice is pointless.

And if you're not what you claim to be or are greatly exaggerating (a likely possibility) then responding to you is again, pointless.

Either way this thread is a waste of time.

^ What is the point of your post?

All I can say is look at how you actually approach and talk to women and in which environment.
Then look at what type of women you want to attract.
Then reflect on yourself and try to point out what let your approach down or why your not actually getting the women you want.
Then you should read the numerous help reports people have put on this site.

I know my post is vague, but you will only properly change if you manage to figure out the problem yourself [=