"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi Guys...

I just started this year @ Uni doing Nursing.. and there are a lot of girls.. and it's like 25 to 1 ratio of girls to guys.. Just wondering if u guys have any tips on what i should do.. Most of them are straight from school, 17 turning 18 soon. I'm 25 but I look 20 to 21 so they say so.. Being the minority i guess i have my advantages but i just wanna c how i should do this properly...

I would like to keep posting and updating here for u guys and let u know how i'm progressing. If you guys can give me feedback and while i continue and keep going. I still have another 2 n 1/2 years till i graduate so plenty more oppurtunities to come..

So far no real girls at the moments.. most of them are friends and particular one i befriended has never had a BF or been kissed or any experience..

Thanks in Advance...

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just be alpha, cool and laid-back. You're at a disadvantage as female nurses are going to want to bag a doctor. Don't make it look like you're looking for the booty, but just be suave around them, don't be afraid to be sexual and to do kino. Be seen with women on your arm when going out.
 

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I have friend girls that i befriend... some of them get jealous... cuz prolly they're still young and Immature.. Sometimes i get overwhelmed by all this girl.. and then i get 2 know the girl society and it suxs..

Being confident, alpha and cool doesn't always help.. sometimes they look @ u as in. oh that's the guy that's befriends every1.. somedays they will act cold or look at the girl ur sitting next to or talking to and make a note of it...

Bah... childish really
 

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Well, it's not just a matter of befriending. Gays do that. Keep a sexual state. Women aren't stupid, but they use they vestigial rational mind to reason away the signs, whilst their inner horny beast is screaming for you to bone them. That is of course, if you give them reason for them to be horny over you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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villshah said:
lol I need to get into nursing!
Medicine and Veterinary Science are going the same way. Medicine is 60-70% female. Vet Med is 70-85% female.
 

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Ok how do i do what i have to do. Reason i'm being friends wif them is i've never been in a situation with so many girls so i am overwhelmed. Somtimes i'm the only guy in class n there r like 25 or so girls. In elevators i'm like the only guy n there's like 5 or 6 other girls. I have this biggest grin in my face to a point where i almost shy away... haha!!!

Only thing that worries is me is if i start doing stuff. won't they start talking n then label me?? Mind u i've been holding back a bit cuz of the fact some of them r ignoring me cuz i'm talking to a different girls everytime..

I remember one time i hanged out wif a girl which as unplanned n then had 2 i meet up wif another friend girl which was planned :) So i had 2 side by side.. we kinda hanged 4 a bit n one girl decided to leave.. I could sense one was not happy.. i felt kinda akward n guilty cuz i'm good guy :p When the other girl left the other girl said she's kinda skinny don't u think? i just mumbled mmm somethin. Then she left eventually then i went n caught up wif the other girl n she said where's ur friend oh she's gone n continued to hang out wif her.. While at the same time there r other girls keeping a note who i'm wif..

I feel like my everymove is being watched.. i Hate it..

Ok when i go back next term in which i'll meet some new ones.. i'll do a set n post here n update u guys n u can feedback me on what i should or shouldn't do..
 
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