"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ungrateful woman calls boyfriend who nursed her back from serious illness a stalker!

MatureDJ

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It seems that this woman was nursed back to health by her boyfriend, and of course, she waited until after she got well to dump him, and now she complains that he is "stalking" her :trouble:

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/...stalked_by_the_man_who_saw_me_through_a_.html

I find this to be a great episode about the loyalty of women, and it reminds of some teenage movie whose name escapes me (Last American Virgin?), where the beta helps out a girl who got pregnant from some guy, and then once that was finished, he finds her back with that guy. :box:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MatureDJ said:
I find this to be a great episode about the loyalty of women
Because if one woman does it then surely all women do it.

Just like when one guy kills his girlfriend then that makes all men violent killers. :cheer:

Does the site pay you to post this stuff to drum up pageviews?
 

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love the response and advice "...but K sounds like the kind of person who instead of waiting for you to get drunk on your own, would slip you a roofie..."

staggerring cr@p!
 

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Zarky said:
Because if one woman does it then surely all women do it.

Just like when one guy kills his girlfriend then that makes all men violent killers. :cheer:
Weird. Because you just said this not 2 posts ago.

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Who in the world is looking for "quality" women? hahaha
A dandy playa who cuts through POF 4's like butter or a white knighting herb parroting NAWALT !! in every 2nd post.

It's called "congruence" snarky. Pick a story and stick with it ya peanut.
 

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It's pretty typical of people to use if they can. We've all done it. This chick is an a55hole, but likely went along with her only option.

The fellow had pre-set conditions that were not likely discussed (like happily ever after). He's likely another poor AFC who's specific affliction is "Nice Guy Syndrome".

There are two things I find appalling about this article.

First, the guy is a naive idiot who could use this site to help him wake up. He's at fault for his current situation, but he's not evil.

Second is that Prudence is a cvnt. A true hater. The few posts I've read of hers all sound the same. Neither person will benefit or grow from her advice. The guy will be perceived as a criminal rather than an AFC "Nice Guy" and the woman will skip off absolved of all guilt because she was ... taken advantage of (What a crock, it's not like he was plugging a paraplegic without consent.).

She to tell the guy the truth (she's have to believe it and understand it first though). She needed a slap from Prudence, not absolution.

He needed the truth from the gimp so he might learn a couple things about human nature and grow the f*ck up.

Bah,

SH
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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He's a classic White Knight, riding in on his trusty steed to rescue the Damsel In Distress, his only reward for his good deed shall be eternal love and gratitude. She's a typical damaged woman, accepting his help, playing along while using him to build herself back up to the point where she can find a more suitable man for such a desirable woman.

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Woman is an ungrateful cvnt. Guy is a white knight moron trying to "earn" a woman's affection. It's all very typical, isn't it?
 
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