"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Unexplainable deterioration

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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At this time Im pretty busy studying for some exams so I havnt gone to the gym for about three weeks now and will not do so for another week. I train in Muay Thai and do weight lifting two times a weeks at my gym. Before this I would train everyday, but now that I stopped I feel like my body is falling apart, my shoulder hurts, my knee hurts, my elbows hurt. Id expect these things to happen during training, not all exactly in the time where Im not doing anything but pushups and squats at home.

Anybody have any ideas?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you sound dehydrated, joints start hurting when you don't drink enough water, maybe you just havent been drinking as much water as when you were working out. or maybe you just havent had alot of sleep because you were studying, or it could just be stress from the upcomming exams, or it might as will be from all three things i've suggested put together
 

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Good point with the dehydration, Ive started drinking more milk and basicly dont drink pure water anymore, thanks man.
 

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Just a note.

I've read somewhere (I think it in was Chris Ryan's survival guide or somewhere) that drinking milk can actually dehydrate you, on account that the protein in the milk requires water to be processed. And you dont get enough water in the milk to do that!


Hope that helps :)

Laney
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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