Understanding women

[Pozitron]

I'm trying to understand, to figure out why sometimes girls do what they do and based on what do they make their decissions.
It's words.. and then it's actions.
I find that no matter how hard I try to explain my view and argument it once my girl sticks with her belief.. her decision. So eventually it's like all that talk on my side.. it didn't matter.

What is this?
Why do they do what they do?
They judge and act based on what?
What is that pawerfull that they ignore everything else and do it their way?

I was thinking that the answer is just emotion. But that is simplified.. and I don't really see an explanation in this word.

Any insight on this? I'm interested in things you've found or know to be true.

Sometimes.. THEY don't even get why they do what they do... bet what is it beneath all that?

 

[NorwegianDJ]

The same thing prevents her from seeing what you see, as you seeing what I see; belief systems, values, and essentially ego. I'm gonna stay out of this dude. What I tell you is like it's all talk on my side; you're not gonna listen.

 

[LearningSlowly]

This is a theory question. Theory questions can be interpreted a million different ways, so I can't answer. If you give me a situation that illustrates your point, I will see it differently.

For now I will say, women are human beings. They have complicated feelings, and many people in their lives. The interactions between their minds and all their different friends make them too complicated to understand, just like all people. Live your own life based on your own principles and the answers to your questions will flow naturally.

 

[alxrose04]

For now I will say, women are human beings. They have complicated feelings, and many people in their lives. The interactions between their minds and all their different friends make them too complicated to understand, just like all people. Live your own life based on your own principles and the answers to your questions will flow naturally.

LearningSlowy is right. Women human beings and as human beings we flutter between being sinners and saints. There are days that we are righteous and there are days where we do stupid things just because. The puzzle that is woman is something that may never be solved. I'm sorry for the broad answer but you'll be a lot happier if you just learn to roll with the illogical-ness by which they operate.

There's no use in trying to win them over with logic. That one right there is a fact. You can't get a girl to like you or get her to see your point of view through logic by standing by your actions and beliefs, and not worrying about her's, is when she'll come along.

Good question, but don't lose sleep over it. You're ok.

 

[Nino-Tk]

I'd say its much better to leave the pandora box that is a woman's mind. I've found that it is much better to embrace your masculinity and simultaneously you will perhaps not fully understand women, but you will get a feel, or a vibe from them, that is all you need my dear friend. Know thyself and thy sexuality.

 

[Gripped]

I'm trying to understand, to figure out why sometimes girls do what they do and based on what do they make their decissions.
It's words.. and then it's actions.
I find that no matter how hard I try to explain my view and argument it once my girl sticks with her belief.. her decision. So eventually it's like all that talk on my side.. it didn't matter.

What is this?
Why do they do what they do?
They judge and act based on what?
What is that pawerfull that they ignore everything else and do it their way?

I was thinking that the answer is just emotion. But that is simplified.. and I don't really see an explanation in this word.

Any insight on this? I'm interested in things you've found or know to be true.

Sometimes.. THEY don't even get why they do what they do... bet what is it beneath all that?

I feel it's important with anyone no matter what there gender in that unless they are directly insulting you, the best way to deal with it is to in no way become aggressive with your idea and force her to become defensive. Once someone becomes defensive about their idea an attachment is grown to it and thus they become emotionally involved. I find it is easier to try and consider their point of view and if I still feel it's BS then I will then consider both sides out loud, but sincerely, and not attack the other persons idea, instead looking to emphasize the positives of both.