DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
time and time again we see these posts were fellow brothers hear the words LJBF...
i have never even in my complete AFC days have heard these dreadful words.
at first i did not understand how this could be such a common term used toward us men. reading several of the threads out there some of us are strickly heart broken. cant sleep cant eat. some dont know how this happened. thought that this women loved them.
NONSENSE!
i dont want to come off insincere or seem heartless, but this is a wake up call.
if you are hearing this in any form or fashion LJBF, then the problem is YOU.
look and the mirror and ask yourself how you put yourself in this predicament.
enlighten me if i am missing something here but my thoughts are this...
the only way this could happen is if you wear your heart on your sleeve and express your dying love for this women.(maybe not to that extent, but along those lines)
turning yourself from an AFC you play the field, you spin plates. you go out and have fun. exhausting your time into one women TO THE POINT wear she feels obligated to "set you straight" should never surface the opportunity.
what are you doing that she feels she needs to clarfiy your relationship??
now dont get me wrong. she may see you really as just a friend. however if you are enjoying the company, spinning plates, there is no need for her to tell you this.
i have many female friends that i spend time with. however i have never put myself in a situation to where she thinks that my intentions may be elsewhere.
and i think the reason for that is because i act the SAME with all the women i know. so because i give her EC, use kino, a bit of C & F... it isnt intimidating because its a part of my personality with all women.
no need to "let me know LJBF"
i have never even in my complete AFC days have heard these dreadful words.
at first i did not understand how this could be such a common term used toward us men. reading several of the threads out there some of us are strickly heart broken. cant sleep cant eat. some dont know how this happened. thought that this women loved them.
NONSENSE!
i dont want to come off insincere or seem heartless, but this is a wake up call.
if you are hearing this in any form or fashion LJBF, then the problem is YOU.
look and the mirror and ask yourself how you put yourself in this predicament.
enlighten me if i am missing something here but my thoughts are this...
the only way this could happen is if you wear your heart on your sleeve and express your dying love for this women.(maybe not to that extent, but along those lines)
turning yourself from an AFC you play the field, you spin plates. you go out and have fun. exhausting your time into one women TO THE POINT wear she feels obligated to "set you straight" should never surface the opportunity.
what are you doing that she feels she needs to clarfiy your relationship??
now dont get me wrong. she may see you really as just a friend. however if you are enjoying the company, spinning plates, there is no need for her to tell you this.
i have many female friends that i spend time with. however i have never put myself in a situation to where she thinks that my intentions may be elsewhere.
and i think the reason for that is because i act the SAME with all the women i know. so because i give her EC, use kino, a bit of C & F... it isnt intimidating because its a part of my personality with all women.
no need to "let me know LJBF"